i have several best friends that r gay males...love em do any thing in the world for em...they my best friends....i have 2 online that i have been friends with for 3 yrs.....my hubby flipped b-cuz i wanted to meet one of these guys in person..?? why is he like that when the guy friends i have now come over every day and do laundry and we bullshit .....what is the diff??? online and in person??
2006-08-12 22:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by poppysgirl70 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
maybe he fears for your personal safety... and is just trying to protect you.. you have to remember... you know these guys well but he does not..
2006-08-12 22:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is probably concerned about your safety. These realtime get-togethers of online friends aren't always in your best interest. Quite frankly, for one thing, the guy could pretend he is gay and he is not. If you ever do meet up with someone, tell your husband about it and meet in a public place, like a restaurant or a coffee house. I also suspect your husband is jealous because a gay man may offer emotional support to you. Men cannot always do this or they are not good at it with their wives so they become jealous at other men who can do so. Some men are jealous of their wives female friends for this reason too.
2006-08-13 10:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're husband loves you lol. If you maybe took a small step for him, you're marriage will end up with less arguments. It's not that hard to maybe meet this person behind his back so he doesnt feel bad. He just doesnt want you to get raped and get hiv/pregnant thats all.
2006-08-13 05:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 reasons, he is jealous, insecure or lacking your attention. On the first place, stop entertaining this people and focus on your family life.
2006-08-13 05:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sam X9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants your undivided attention-he is your husband after all-and there are sacrafices you make when you decide to say I DO. have you invited him with you ? ask him to go-that might make him feel more comfortable-he is in love with you girl-take care of his feelings-and compromise-
2006-08-13 05:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by gemini~~~marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him im ready to marry you .im a good guy .
2006-08-13 06:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by richiemalik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋