how to survive when u feel you lost the most stable support u had?

Answer 1

u cant have lost everything ... there is always God remember ?? just go back to him whtever ur religion was just pray & while prayin show how much u believe that God will b by urside anytime & i swear to God u will feel better & u will have ALLLL & EVERY support u neeed !! BESSSST OF LUCK !!

Answer 2

Stable support? Like:

1) Financial support? Simple -- get a job especially when you're at the qualifying age already. Or study hard and maximize whatever is in your store until you graduate.

2) Moral support? Accept the fact that you've lost someone close to you and move on. As simple as that; although I understand it will be quite difficult and it will take some time, but you have to get over it. However, since you initially feel you're losing such support, you might want to ask instead for your immediate family's support. Family's support should not be so hard to obtain.

3) Somehow, it's not really easy to get what you mean so....... Well, hope one of my answers above contain what you seek.

Answer 3

Take a break if you need to, a little trip maybe, find yourself, but don't constantly search, just allow yourself some breathing room. Things are going to be different, very different, but the only way to grow is to go forward, don't look back! You will feel less safe, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. When you are there, you will feel better, stronger, grown. That's a promise. You just need to take those first steps by yourself, all by yourself, and you need to do it for a little while. I support you and am cheering for you! I have gone through something like that. Good luck, good luck!!

Answer 4

And what is the most stable support you had? The most stable support we have is within us. We are and we can support ourselves. Don't be fooled by what the word projects us as support.

If you lost yourself then...you find it by trying to search what has made you lost yourself. Ask yourself hard questions but dont stop there you have to answer them. By self-examination then you can find yourself again.

"The life that is unexamined is not worth living" Socrates

Answer 5

The heart is a tricky organ. My dear, in life you can never allow your emotions to super-cede your intellect.
If you have no other means of support,you have to keep going.
You can cry over spilled milk, but that wont get it up off the floor. Human beings are born survivors.
You will feel hurt, betrayed and maybe even abandoned but let this be a valuable lesson in life- NEVER LET SOMEONE ELSE CONTROL YOU.
You got comfortable and thought that things would never changed. now that they have you have to work a Lil bit harder to get back on track.
if you need some referrals to any organizations that may be of assistance please let me know.
Sing: I'M A SURVIVOR. I'M NOT GONNA GIVE UP!
Sing: I WILL SURVIVE OH AS LONG AS I KNOW HOW TO LOVE I KNOW ILL STAY ALIVE.
I GOT ALL MY LIFE TO LIFE TO LIVE AND I GOT ALL MY LOVE TO GIVE AND ILL SURVIVE. I WILL SURVIVE. HEY HEY!!!!!

Answer 6

Here's what helped me: "The Feeling Good Handbook" by David Burns MD. It's wonderful mood therapy. Will teach you a whole new way to live life. You can learn to be self supporting and overcome all sorts of obstacles life throws at you. It cured me of suicidal depression.

You will be fine. People are survivors... I'm proof.
Get the book... It's 14 to 20 bucks depending on where you buy it... it WILL change your life.

'nuff said?

Answer 7

You get a grip and support yourself like everyone else that has a home and a life all across this country !!!

YOU don't NEED anyone to support you !!!
YOU can do it on your own.
It may be a rough start but you can do it.

Never say quit, never say I give up and never back down !!!

Be tough, adapt, and overcome !!!

:o)

Answer 8

Deal with it. Life changes. There's ups and downs. You can take care of yourself. It might hurt, and it might be hard, but it's important to move on and continue to love life. Your life is the only thing given to you that you have control over. So make the best of it. Move on, your worth it, and you are strong enough to live through the hardships of life on your own, because if you can deal with that, than you can reap the rewards of life... love, happiness, adventure...

Answer 9

Shake it off- Stand up tall on your own two feet - Face the world alone and do your best to succeed , not just survive, and don't take any #*@% from anybody!!!

Answer 10

Take time to feel upset if you need too, and work on relying on yourself instead of that person or whatever support that was. Good luck, you will be fine.