Ladies, have you ever cheated on your man? if so why?

Question

I believe everyone can make a terrible mistakes in life and can regret what they do. If you did, how far in the marriage did you cheat and what made you do it?

Answer 1

Yes, not the one I'm with now (and I can't even imagine it 4 yrs almost 5) but damn near all the others. I guess the opportunity was there and it's always interesting to see how much rope someone will give you (and men are so dumb sometimes). the better question is why after people are cheated on by the same person REPEATEDLY do they still choose to stay.

Answer 2

No, I have never cheated on my husband of seven years. Unfortunately, I discovered five weeks and a day ago that he was cheating on me for over a year. I left him because there is no good reason to cheat. I think he had low self-esteem from not being employed in five years, amongst other things. Cheating is not what is missing in the relationship, but what the cheater is missing in him/herself.

Cheating is a choice and a poor excuse.

I am still very hurt from this and probably will not get into another serious relationship for a long time.

Answer 3

Never cheated, though we aren't married, we've been together for 4yrs and I never dreamt of cheating on him. I've been cheated on before and I wouldn't want anyone to go thru the emotions I did no matter what. If I loose interest I'll give it another try if not I'll tell him straight up that it's just not working anymore and move on with my life. But so far that hasn't happened and I'm more than interested in the boyfriend.

Answer 4

My father taught me a very important lesson in life-never make a promise. I get bored very easily. i m not attracted to men who are weak. I enjoy being pampered but Ive dated some men who were just too nice. yes the saying nice guys holds truth.
i am not married but there are several things that will cause me to cheat on a guy:
1) If he doesn't have a source of income
He can work at McDonald's he can even be on Public Assistance as long as he is enrolled in school.
2) if he lives at home with mom. no disrespect fellas but a woman wants a guy who can spend the entire night with her and hold her through the night.
If dude has to come through and hit it and then needs to return home, more than likely......
This doesn't apply to teenagers or younger adults.
and 3)If a man is not mentally stimulating. i don't care how good he looks, how much money he has, He must be able to keep me interested.

Answer 5

I am not married so I guess I didn't really cheat. However, I was with this guy for like 9 years and he was so cold to me. He never treated me like a princess. I guess he thought I was his wife without the wedding - he wouldn't marry me either. But apart from that he was an ok guy. My life was lacking being loved by a real man, so I took a younger lover. One year later we had a dispute about his non-commital ways and I told him what I had done. He was a little dissapointed but that was it.

How cold can a man be?

Answer 6

I didn't and would never cheat on the man I married. I cheated when I was dating a guy several years ago. I remained friends with my ex-fiance until recently and it was when my then-boyfriend and I were having trouble. I suspect he was cheating on me and the relationship was over anyway. I still talk on the phone with both men. I would never see either of them without my husband present.

Answer 7

WOW Tiger - you does no longer have self belief what i'm listening to top at this very 2d - till now He Cheats - I promise - Holy COW - how bizarre is that - too unusual. besides, permit's see if i will concentration here with this music enjoying my headphones: properly at the beginning - he greater useful no longer get caught - via fact this Southern Gal does not play! What would I do: ** Beat the crap out of him first (i comprehend Tae Kwon Do) - mean left section kick - that would placed him out of cost for a while ** Then take considered one of his properly-enjoyed golfing golf equipment and beat the crap out of "particularly Little Souped up 4 wheelchronic". ** Then i'd take all his clothing - and BURN infant BURN WOW - this music is incredibly affecting my answer - I basically hit replay on the music - so i will end. Then "outta here" - no longer me - HIM So, morale to the story - do no longer mess with a Southern Gal's and her guy! no rely what the circumstances. Hugs Tiger - experience greater useful sugar! Hugs, Susie

Answer 8

I did when i was younger . It was because he stopped giving me all of the things that i needed as a woman . I had to find someone that would keep holding me all through the night , and not just in the begining. I needed someone who would keep me thinking positively about myself , not someone who started to put me down all of the time . I needed someone who would be there for me through the darkest times in my life , because there was no other place that they would want to be.
ect. ect..... If you would keep thinking that what you have is sooo wonderful , and keep on treating it like you are truely thankful for it---> it will never go away . It won't need to , because it will have found everything that it needed right there with you !

Answer 9

I have thought about it we have been married 23 years and he has let himself go weight olmost 400 lbs and just sits around has not worked in 5 years I take care of his mom full time who has azhiemers I have just about had it with him so that is why I would dream about some sexy guys once in awhile I am still human and still have wants and needs but have'nt crossed that line yet.

Answer 10

There is not excuse for cheating in my opinion if you feel that you have fallen out of love or that you mate is no longer interested in you then maybe its time to move on