I am so in love with my boyfriend we have known eachother for almost six years and yea we have our ups and downs but who dosent....i'm tired of my family telling me i'm to young to be in love but I am the only one who can tell inside my heart how I feel, he is my baby i do really love him with all my heart, I no I do and everyone says i'm not because of what they have went through but not everyone is the same! Me and my boyfriend have been through so much together I was there for him when his best friend died he was there for me when my mom left me behind I almost had his baby i mean is it really impossible to be in love just because i'm 16?
2006-08-12 21:35:01 · 16 answers · asked by prettyeyez27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
People can fall in love at any age.
"I almost had his baby" ...
However, you still are very young to have a child.
2006-08-12 21:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by advice from the heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not too young to fall in love. There are many successful marriages whch began at you age, however, there are just as many that do not last. You do have to remember that you are still young and that you will change a lot, especially in the next 10 years. I met my first husband when I was 16 , we got married at 21 but I knew by then it was not going to last. We got married wrongly, I didn't love him anymore and foolishly I went along with it because my parents paid for the wedding and I felt like I had no option. Less than 18 months later we were getting divorced and I had met the wonderful man I am now married to and have 4 children with. I am now 32, but when I was 16, I thought I knew it all and didn't think I would ever change, but we did change and it was such a weight off my shoulders when we split. So, just be careful, think logically, and take each day as it comes, if you get any doubts, don't hide them like I did!!
2006-08-12 21:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by LM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you are in love.
The thing is, whatever point we are at in life, we think we have all the answers. I loved a girl in high school when I was 16 years old, but now that I am 24 years old I realize that I did not have a full concept of love.
Now I am 24 and am in love with another girl.
I've seen many of my friends marry the person they thought they loved in high school and end up divorced and lost because they did not grow up, go to school, move away from home, be forced to make new friends, have new experiences, etc. etc.
When your family tells you that you are too young, they are speaking from the experience of being on this planet for more years than you have. They have been 16 and thought they were in love too. Almost every human being thinks they will spend their life with their boyfriend/girlfriend in high school. Your family's thoughts are important, because they want the best for you.
There are millions of people and places in this world, and I think you owe it to yourself to get out there and meet more people and experience more things before you decide to spend your life with someone.
2006-08-12 21:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by augustwestmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon everyone is not the same no one will ever be able to feel how you two do ! others just worry about the things that happened to them and dont want to see you go though that but as a mom of 5 i know that some day i will have the same talk with them sure you dont need to get marriedright now but it sounds like you have found your best friend and that is a wonderful thing i hope you can stay together and be there for each other during hard times and good times and some day possibly marry and have a great life in each others arms. try to alway follow your heart !
2006-08-12 21:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by bleueyedsunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16 years old . Enjoy your youth before you settle down. If you have a baby at this age then your youth is gone for good! A baby can wait for your mid to late twenties. But right now, the right thing to do is enjoy yourself. Enjoy yourself and your boyfriend, because if you bring a baby into the world right now you will lose everything you have come to do. You wont wake up when you want to,you wont do something when you want to , you wont go somewhere you want to go. EVERYTHING your whole life is right now will be changed for that child. Enjoy your youth.
If you say you are in love and i think you are then you will realise that if your boyfriend loves you the same he will stay with you to enjoy your youth together and when you are ready at a later age then you should start a family. Having a baby to show your love for your boyfriend is a mistake! A big mistake . This may seem like im telling you what to do , but if you think about it , its the right thing to do!
2006-08-12 21:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always think it's funny when someone sayes someone else is to young to love someone. A child loves his parents right? Even if it's at age 10. To then say that the same child doesn't know what love is, is rediculuse. My aunt met her husband when she was 13, they are now almost 40 and still married. Useually love at a young age between a girl and a boy is more pure, as there are no past hurts. Also a person will always remember their first love. So to say that it's not love is unthoughtfull.
2006-08-12 21:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for you to be in love at 16. it would be wise however to wait a bit longer ,say 2 yrs to get really serious about sex and marriage and babies. go out together, have fun, learn about each other and save some money so you can have a good start to life when you do get married and to show mom and dad that you can do better than most
2006-08-12 21:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not too young to love but I worry when you say that you almost had his baby, You ARE too young to have a child. Is it love or just that you need to feel protected and wanted?
2006-08-12 21:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by NEIL C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling trust me
u are young.
i mean i knw u feel that yup this is it, but it isnt hold on u have to !!!!
its trooooooo early.
u were 10 hen u met him, ur 16 now, how up and down could ur life have practicaly been through.???
the worse is still to come, so just wait
and if u both do realy love each other sooo much, then their shoulnt b a prob. in waiting.
2006-08-12 21:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love for the first time at 15. It just depends on how muture you are for your age. It's not impossible for it to work even if you are 16. My mom & dad fell in love with each other in their teen's & was married to each other for 50 years before they passed. They were true soulmates.
2006-08-12 21:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋