2006-08-12 21:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by vandana p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Determine the cause of the boredom.
Is it really your marriage or is it your life? You can create pretty much anything you want for the 2 of you - the big trick is determining what you want!
So what do you want? Out of life? Family? What do you want out of marriage?
What part is getting boring? Don't say 'all of it'! ;-)
Some tips:
~ Go on some 'dates', trying sommething different - like go to the video arcade and play video games together, go to an 'adult bookstore' and explore some videos or toys, go garage saleing on Sat morning, explore you local area as if it was a tourist destination (i.e - go see all the touristy stuff), rent Harleys and go for a motorcycle weekend get away, cook diner for him nekid, go skinny dipping, go sky diving, perhaps a hike, look at local interest groups like kayaking, swing dancing, etc.
I would warn that it is important to turn it around now - divorce is such a tangled soul wrenching and life changing event you don't want to go there!
Good luck and Cheers!
2006-08-12 21:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by shredderb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage can't be boring. People can be boring. Rather than let things be boring, why not try new things? There are millions of things people can do, and life is way too short to do all of them. Sitting on your butt in front of the TV, or the puter isn't all there is to life. Do things. Go pan for gold in Alaska. Rent surfboards in Hawaii. Write a book. Start a business. Take up a sport. Climb a mountain. Sail the oceans. Or, just sit and whine about being bored.
2006-08-13 08:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybodies marriage gets boring. Do somthing to spice things up.
2006-08-13 04:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to bring in romance.
What are the reasons for your marriage getting boring?
Please ask yourself.
2006-08-13 04:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out what makes it boring, what do you think would make it exciting, what did you all do when you dated?, maybe spice up some old ideas. figure out who is the boring person in the relationship, if it does become a major problem deffently seek counseling, This is just what I suggest, Im not a liscensed therapist but still in training
2006-08-13 04:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by martin_werner2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more active with each other. Perhaps even try counseling, or just get a divorce. After all, nearly 50% of marriages do.
2006-08-13 04:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by daedricraven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up, of course! Go on a trip, do a romantic dinner, start making plans every other night or so....that should wash away the boredom.
2006-08-13 04:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to act. stop procrastinating. flash back, think about the nicest time that you had with you spouse. be romantic, have some private time with him, write some notes and leave it under his pillow. rediscover yourself. buy him gifts... there are so many things that u can do. stop brooding..and act and save your marriage. all the best.
2006-08-13 04:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by CuriosCAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and come to me you would be very happy but i think you would be bored with any one you are with if you end up with a divorce you need to go traveling for a while because i dont think you are ready to settle down with any one for a long time
2006-08-13 04:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say vows? Please try and remember that it takes two to make it work. Suggest a romantic getaway to him and find something different for both of you. Do not play around, that way is for people with nointelligence.
2006-08-13 04:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋