A few months ago I was leaving my husband because of actions that took place between him and a supposedly friend of mine. N-E-Wayz We spilt and I had met me somebody that I had sex with a few great time. Not to mention I got pregnant by this man and had an abortion because I didn't want any more kid and plus I am married. He didn't want a baby and he had a woman. I'am back with my husband and all I do is think about this other man. I'am I wrong?
2006-08-12 20:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by sexysweetnikkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
different people will have different opions on the morality of it all but its fact that most NOT ALL but most people in a relationship do at some stage (and often reguarly) think about other people in a sexual manner. some are honest about doing some are not. I dont think there is anything bad about fantasising. I guess it just depends what decisions you make in regard to those fanatsies such as lying about them, acting them out etc. which will decide whether it is wrong or not
2006-08-12 21:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by brentmcassidy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a mess! Well one thing's for sure, 2 wrongs don't make a right. My only question is, why did you get back with your husband if you keep thinking about this other man? It's apparent you still have feelings for him. Sounds like you don't know what it is that you want even though it came right up and hit you in the face.
2006-08-13 04:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must ask you this, why would you still care about a man who did not stand by you while you were carrying his child? Then you give it up abortion, go back with your husband. does he know of this, You are not to much in love with your husband, if you are you wouldn't be fantizing over an other man. i don't see any real commitment in your marriage. doesn't make any since to me.
I'm an old fashion girl and i see thing different
2006-08-13 08:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong! You're only human. Nobody's perfect! Sometimes we act a certain way due to our upbringing and enviroment. Don't put the blame to yourself and stop feeling guilty coz if things were fair you would definetly be in a different situation.
2006-08-13 04:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Yeni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you went back to your husband, but there must be something there to begin with. As for the other guy that you once was part of his life, I suggest you put a closure on it, cause it will destroy your life in the long run. You should have put a closure on it before you went back to your husband, but its not to late. Move on with him and be thankful that you still have someone who loves you. Thanks for asking and Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-13 03:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You had a good time with him, kind of like "no strings attached". Of course you are going to think about him. It was fun. If your gonna make your marriage work, just keep on trying but don't worry about fantasizing, that is perfectly natural. Good luck
2006-08-13 04:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong.
You just have feelings for this guy and have not let go.
Only you know why you have not let go.
I know the feeling because i am in a marrige that is falling apart. and i used to have fantasies of another woman while making love
and thats because i have not let go of feeelings i had for a woman i knew before getting married.
2006-08-13 04:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you did was wrong. and you did it when you were feeling low and lost. now that you are back together with your husband, you should treasure your time with your husband and value him and disregard your time that you had with that man. afterall he has another woman, and how sure are u that he is thinking about you?? please forget him, and go on with your life with your husband. leave the past behind. everyone makes mistake, but dont repeat it.
2006-08-13 04:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by CuriosCAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got too much going on. I would say yes, you're wrong.
2006-08-13 03:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You just prove how much women are whores. HAHA
2006-08-13 03:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lothario 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋