Hey well i have a question..i understand people have been in and out of love but me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years..yea were young but we get through n e thing..well i guess we use to fight all the time and hes been going through these phases..and he started getting closer with another girl..and he thought he was mr. pimp going back and fourth..now hes going out with her.,.in a matter of 4 months he claims he was loosing feelings..but for some reason..deep down..u can tell that he really cares, i wonder if he still adores me and thinks about me..2 years..come one now..ppl tell me its a phase and it wont last, but to leave him alone and realize it..i want him back..is it true he will return in time?
2006-08-12 20:28:16 · 14 answers · asked by xxbabiiredbonexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wake up!Smell the coffee..you need to forget him and move on.He is using you..don't let him
2006-08-18 02:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am only 14, and yes I'm a boy. I've spent my whole life around adults, and have seen more relationships fall apart and last forever than you could possibly imagine. Now, openly confronting him can be good thing and sometimes it be a bad thing. Really, it is how you deliver. Express how you feel about the situation, ask why he doing this, ask what about us? Sometimes its someones personality/ traits that really just end it. Now acting like the nicest little doll, even though truly deep down inside your not that happy is not the best idea. But showing that you truly want to be together, and that you truly care, and that your not just in it for the, .. well you know what I mean, Can be the best approach. Demanding may not be the best approach, " Come back to me" and well stuff like that just doesn't set the mood. I'm sure allot of this you already know, but I hope I could be the slightest assistance, I have been told be adults that I am rather knowledgeable in this category, hope your relationship works out Great, from Behringer
2006-08-12 20:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he returns it will be like a dirty old blanket that has come back. No mattter how many times you throw the dirty blanket in the washer , it will be the same old stained blanket. Why would you even want him back ? With all the fish in the ocean, I would hope you could move on and forget about the used stained blanket. He has dumped on you and you sound like you want him to dump on you again. He will never change. Just come back to use you , when the other girl finds out what a looser he really is. Don't take him back. He is a two timer. God never wanted you to be a door mat. Good Luck !
2006-08-20 14:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. id be very careful if he does. im not sure how i can trust him again if he can dump me for someone else that fast after two years of being together.
if its any consolation, i was a baby, a princess no less, for many years with my ex hubby. he unceremoniously dumped me for a lesbian one day. no fight, he just decided he wanted someone else and me at the same time. no explanation. as i wont have it, he left.
i ended the relationship by closing the circle on my end and offering friendship. he was shocked that i was quite cool about it. (i wasnt but self respect dictated that i look cool). but i cant trust him again after that. sure it was painful, but the pain went away faster than i thought it would.
ive moved on. free and happy.
2006-08-12 20:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah... I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear. I remember when I was crazy about a guy, I thought he would come back to me, oh he came back alright and then left again. I felt like a yo-yo, I was left looking like a fool. I'll say it again, have some self-respect, you deserve better.
2006-08-20 12:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice finding someone else to go out with and either get over him or he will one day realize how he feels and come back if hes not too late to be with you.
2006-08-20 16:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's using you....wake up gal!! He's a cheating bastard and he's capable of cheating again even if he ends with this other girl. Don't live at his mercy and wait for his return. His love is gone even before he found this other girl.
Get on with life gal....you don't deserve a scumbag like him.
2006-08-12 20:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that he wants to come back to you but not for long, and if he finds another girl he will take her, he doesnt want to stay with the same person all the time, so i would move on and just forget about him, you are better then that and one day you will find a man who will love you for who you are, just dont walk all over a man cause they to need to have their space,
2006-08-20 20:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's painful, but don't wait for him. He's not worth it. You sound young...One thing I've learned in life is that things change constantly, and sometimes when you least expect it. You could meet someone new tomorrow!
2006-08-20 11:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Help Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care if he wanted to come back. Aren't you worth more than to be treated like ****? Or is your self esteem so low that that is how you feel you deserve to be treated?
Go find someone who will treat you better.
2006-08-12 20:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋