i just recently found out that my mom has been cheating on my dad. her affair has lasted prob. about 6-8 years. i just found this out from my dad. he has know this the whole time but she denies everything, even though he has proof. he recorded on of the phone call she and this man had had. i listend to it and could not believe that this was my mom. i feel so betrayed by her, this man was once her boss, and i go to school with one of his kids. do i have the right to be furious at her ? i dont even wanna look at her, i havent spoken to her in a while even though we live in the same house. she doesnt know that i know, but im going to tell her that i know here soon. what do i do if she denies it with me like she does with my dad ? she acts as if she doesnt even care about her 3 kids anymore......what do i do ?
2006-08-12 19:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 15.....i have younger brothers ....12 and 9
2006-08-12 19:58:43 · update #1
You have every right to be mad at her. But you should also be mad at your dad since he had no right to make this your business. Obviously your dad was ok with it since he never made a move to end the marriage even though he has proof of her infidelity. Watch out for him trying to make you take sides. I'd tell your mom you know, and that you no longer trust her. And tell your dad it's none of your business if he wants to talk about it more.
2006-08-12 20:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i'm sorry to hear this i'm 26 and have a 23 year old brother my dad did the same thing to my mom when i was 15, the only thing i know is love is blind,i'm sure she care's about all of you kids! she's just wrapped up with this other person..sometimes ppl don't realize what they have in front of them and there's nothing you can do if your mom act's like it isn't true , yes you have the right to be mad, your hurt and that's normal,just tell her what you know and, ask her why, tell her how she's making you feel,if nothing else it will make you feel better...
2006-08-13 03:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father is not taking any big step, it means he do not want to cut her fron your family for his three kids. One day she will leave that man and will repant on her doings then everything will be normal. it is really a bad situation for you, do not speak anything to her about this. Just try to behave normal. talk to her as much need. take a lession from this. you will find lot of abnormal things around you and you would be unable to do anything but would learn things, which will sharp your character.
2006-08-13 03:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should do what you feel is best and try to sit down and talk to your mom ';land maybe she is not happy in that realishionship with your dad and is only still with him for you kids so she doent hurt u
2006-08-13 03:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by chloe f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You defenatly have a right to be mad as all hell at her. She essencially also cheated on the family, and on you.
2006-08-13 03:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋