2006-08-12 19:25:58 · 20 answers · asked by rradboys 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why dont you lie naked in bed with a red rose in your mouth and when he comes the bedroom you ask him no tell him you want to have some fun
2006-08-12 19:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Swordfish B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually it isnt the most important thing in a marriage because communication is healthy. But if sex is a kind of communication and release. but if you can't talk about sex how can you have sex so you have to have both, right?
But yea. sexual relations with your signifigant other is very important. Some psychologists believe a healthy sexual relationship between a husband and wife equals a happy and healthy marriage. NOT always though but it helps.
But yea.
You should talk to him. and see why hes not in the mood. Allow him to openly and honestly talk about his sexual desires and emotions.
if there are struggles you should ask him to go see a therapist. and talk it out together.
or try to have more sex but his way
2006-08-13 02:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by SEXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm usually it is the other way around. They guy is the one who is complaining that he is not getting enough. Try holding off on asking for sex, and wait till he approaches you.
pack a picnic and a blanket and go to a park, sit back and relax.
maybe all the presure you putting on him about sex is driving him away from sex.
find other things to do in the marriage besides sex....
2006-08-13 02:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are actually some proactive things you can do about this. Debi Pearl in her book "Created To Be His Helpmeet" offers advice along these lines:
Feed him red meat.
Exercise together.
Give him some vitamins.
These things actually help to increase his sexual desire. I also recommend freshening up your hair and makeup for his arrival home from work, greeting him with a smile and some non-sexual attentiveness, being playful with him, and thanking him for his hard work are all ways to help increase his appetite for you.
Many blessings!
2006-08-13 02:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by MomWtrmn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not paying any attention tell him abt ur college friends how macho they were .Then only no intrest then mail me at pvs@myself.com & I will give u more guidence as also deal in sex related cases
Dr.
2006-08-13 02:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by priyapele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's gay, or he has another woman, or he just doesn't find you attractive. Well, he could also have that very rare disease, which he doesn't want you to tell about.
Hmm I'd say clear that out before anything else. Good luck!
2006-08-13 02:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by lazyoli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you over weight or something else that may be a turn off to him? Have you ever cheated on him? There are alot reasons why he may not be interested.
2006-08-13 02:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Brandon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...Lucky You!!! My wife doesn't want to have sex AT ALL. At least you have a sex drive...Wish some of that would rub off on my wife.
2006-08-13 02:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by markgrinny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do.
there's more to being married than just banging eachother. Yes, that is a major part of being married but it's not the only part.
2006-08-13 02:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Wish there was too much importance in my sex life!!!!!
I;m sorry to hear about this! Maybe we should swap, lol!
2006-08-13 02:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋