I have a friend and he is gay, yet he always teases me and tells me he wants to do me.. but I used to think he was playing, but then he just started to call while in hottub and whne he is in a playful mood and even when he is tipsy.. he gets jealous when i am with my friends and he always asks where i am going etc. I commented i was gonna move out on my own and he said he wants to come live with me and that we both could have S** One time he also told me he had a crush on me and if i wasnt a woman he would date me.... Am confused is he gay or not?? he said he is but he just completely confuses me.
2006-08-12 19:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by Kaine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well I cant say i dont find him attractive, but I am just wondering. I dont see him as more than a friend Was just curious. He and I had been friends for 3 years now. I think he did once asked me if I wanted a kid he could be its father. I never take him seriously but really got me questioning his sexual orientation today.
2006-08-12 20:29:49 · update #1
He's just horny. I have a friend who is completely gay, yet he often makes out with girls, just for the pleasure of it, even though he doesn't like girls. For them is just sex, that doesn't mean he's in love with you or anything.
2006-08-12 22:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that! What I believe is going on with him is yes, he is gay. BUT... every gay guy has his gal!
What I mean is.. I don't care how gay you are.. there is very few.. maybe even one person of the sex you do not like that you would still be with. Maybe even in a relationship even though there are high high chances it would never work. Sounds like you are the gal to this gay guy. For most guys (and girl) it's Angelina Jolie.. nobody can resist her. Lol. Well 99.999999999% of the population wouldn't turn her down. But anyways, you get my point right?
Your situation probably goes a little more in depth then this and if you'd like to talk about it you can contact me from my profile page here on Yahoo! Answers.
But yea, thats what I think it is. Just be careful becuase a relationship with this guy would never work...
2006-08-13 02:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be somewhat bi. Pieter U3 gave good advice.
Guys can have sex and not have it mean too much. Be careful he doesn't do that with you.
Don't let him control you. Confront him. Put him in his place. If he doesn't stop it might be time to cut him off and let him know it.
If you are friends for a while maybe you could be his baby-momma?
2006-08-13 02:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like immaturity and game playing to me. He needs to do some introspection and decide what he wants in his life before he drags other people's emotions through the mud for lack of consideration. Remain cautious.
2006-08-13 05:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my best guess is ....... he's probably a bit bi-sexual. I've got a gay friend that told me in no uncertain terms that she wasn't beyond sleeping w/ a man in a pinch. She said she would only have a relationship w/ another woman, but sex is sex, and if it felt good she was open to it w/ who ever.
2006-08-13 02:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by rummy714 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be he is needing affection or attention and this is his way of trying to get it... I joke alot and make comments in real life about having sex with this person or that person... but they are strictly jokes... hard to answer your question... only true test to it would be to see if he would actually go the distance... he may be all talk...
2006-08-13 04:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Levi Cristopher . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your cool and let him sort himself out. Don't get emotionally or sexually involved or you could end up getting hurt. If he flirts then remind him he should make up his mind and if he is jealous remind him that makes no sense.
He sounds somewhat immature to me. Be careful. Stay detached.
2006-08-13 02:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by pieter U3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One more time: there are MANY people part-way between str8 and gay.
I won't scream it, but: the labels are confusing people!
2006-08-13 06:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Luis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's bisexual. But the real question here is not that. The real question is, do you like him? If you do, and he does, then drop the labels and be happy.
2006-08-13 03:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe no offense u are kinda of a tomboy... so he sees ur masculine side and the feminine side so he thinks ur a gay man... if that makes any sense
2006-08-13 02:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋