i used to love having sex . but since i have had 2 kids it is hard. i just dont have the erge or the wanting to. and i am only31. and the thing is ,is i want to have that feiling back again. i have been to the dr's and tryed things . but no luck...
2006-08-12 19:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sharon K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Did your doctor talk to you about testosterone?
It does wonders for us men - this is why we want it all the time.
You can increase your testosterone naturally by taking L-Arginine 2X per day on an empty stomach (at bedtime and upon waking) 2g each time, plus try DHEA (I don't know about the dosage for a woman).
You can get this at GNC or any other vitamin place.
2006-08-13 03:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of many women that are going through this. However, the news isn't good. Lots of times the husband or boyfriend will be patient with you and try not to push you too much to be sexual, like you used to be. After he gives you some time to recover, and you don't find a way, together, to get you back interested, he might start looking for other releases. It could be as simple as masturbation or as complex as looking for another woman. You can help yourself through this by exploring things that used to excite you. Use your imagination of what turns you on, get books, videos, chat, or whatever it takes to get you excited again. You did the right thing by going to your DR. If he can't help, it's up to you. Good Luck
2006-08-12 19:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 05:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a friend of mine went through a similar thing after she had her first kid. She wanted to be intimate with her husband and make him happy, but she didn't have the "urge" like she used to. She ended up going to a therapist, alot of stuff with sexual urges can be mental rather than physical, she also suffered from mild post partum depression
2006-08-12 19:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite normal. What you need is a babysitter for a couple of days and a room for a couple of days. Dear I hate to say this but you are warn out. You need a good rest and a little tender loving care.
2006-08-12 19:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre not aroused or you feel youre not attractive anymore.. its ok, just set your mind on what you will do (sex) & youll feel the pleasure again
2006-08-12 19:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by gillette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has the same problem...
2006-08-12 19:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋