my bf of 2 years asked me to marry him, and I said yes.
I am to move from Texas to UK to be with him. I always wanted to go, but now, at almost the last minute, I'm dreadfully nervous >.<.. I don't know how long it will be until I get to see my family again, I dunno if I will have trouble finding work there....
Is it natural to be nervous?
2006-08-12 19:03:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. There is usually a fear of the unknown. The future isn't certain for you right now, and you just want to know that things are going to work out alright. Would it help if you sat down with some of your family and asked them that if you couldn't get back to see them by a certain time, would they come visit you? You can also ask them if they would be willing to come visit you every now and then after you marry. As for a job, trust that you have the skills, be ready to put in the footwork it takes to find a job, and you should do well. :) We all come to blind spots in our paths, God's stands besides us at all times, especially when we can't see over the hump in the road. Good Luck! :)
2006-08-12 19:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to be sure that you Love him. If you aren't sure of the decision then take time to think about it before you decide. I am planning to move to another country with my husband, and I don't even understand or speak the language, and I am not scare because I am going to be with the man I Love.
2006-08-12 19:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by speedy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure , since he wants to marry you, he is well aware of your feelings of anxiety/nervousness about going somewhere you've never gone. You need to make sure it is something you really want to do. You could always write...and besides, this would give them all a vacation spot.
Good Luck
2006-08-12 19:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by MAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋