i exercise, i do Kegels, i fantasize, but it is becoming tiresome for my partner. Help!
2006-08-12 19:00:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It would depend if you're trying through intercourse, oral or manual stimulation. There are many variables. Are you on any meds? Is there any signifigant stressors going on, are you getting enough sleep, go down the whole list and if you can't find anything obvious, call your doctor.
2006-08-12 19:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried foreplay? Are you doing the same position or in the same place all the time? Would you consider vacationing together in an exciting and exotic place.
I do not want to frighten you but have you asked your doctor about some kind of health problem which might have affected your system? I hope you are healthy.
On the other hand, your partner must help you by not showing his irritation from your dilemma. And it could also be healthy for your relationship if there will be times you could pretend you had it to prevent your partner from exhaustions. I do not know what else but it could also be some kind psychological problem if not health issues. I wish I could say more. Good luck!
2006-08-12 19:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Rallie Florencio C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky.. I'm only 21 and I'm starting to notice it taking much longer. I do tend to notice though the less I orgasm the quicker one comes and the more I orgasm the longer it takes. My guess would be that it has something to do with age even though this does not apply to me.
Maybe try changing things up. Do something neither one have you has ever done before. Try new things. Maybe that will help.
:)
2006-08-12 19:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by CSF 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think this is part of being over 40. It just takes longer to get there. I'm 46 and I've noticed the same thing.
2006-08-12 19:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Chalkbrd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before intercourse have more than 15 minutes love like kissing, rubbing, licking and some sucking including some nice bites from stimulated parts of your and your partner body. Persuade him/her to does these actions before intercourse. After intercourse persuade your partner to stimulate you by some nice sexy actions like telling some sexy words, rubbing your parts and some sucking and kissing. Also during intercourse stimulated yourself by rubbing and licking of your **** by yourself and rubbing the sensitive part of your vulva by your hand. It will be more enjoyable and will help to be get orgasm sooner.
2006-08-12 19:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Shab-e-ghazal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the right partner
2006-08-12 19:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by gene r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋