2006-08-12 18:59:19 · 14 answers · asked by kelliekareen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i guess its different for everyone but talking will help and counselling and maybe your pastor. sorry about your personal loss.
2006-08-12 19:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by him n her♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I think it's very important to grieve and to feel the loss. If you try to run from it, it will only catch up to you and hit you when you least expect it to. It's important to grieve and to share your grief and talk about it. Healing come slowly, one day at a time. Try to get back into the world and start living. It's the only way to start to feel normal and it will take your mind off this for at least a while...that is the key...and you shouldn't feel guilty that you had an few minutes or an hour where you did not think of your sibling. It's ok to do so. Sometimes you feel almost ashamed that you could laugh again, but you shouldn't. Your sibling would not want you to be sad and if you love them and take them with you in your heart they will never really be gone.
2006-08-13 02:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always miss your sibling. They have been a great part of your life up until now, and they will always have a place in your heart. There isn't a set amount of time for healing. A lot of that you actually determine for yourself. Some people refuse to heal, they refuse to feel the hurt and keep pushing on with life, ignoring the feelings raging inside them. What they don't know is that someday they will slow down, and the hurts will have to heal. Take time for yourself once in a while just to think about your sibling, and be grateful for them. Remember them in good memories, and be glad for the time you did have with them. If you look at it as if they were stolen from you, it will make the time of healing even harder to get through.
2006-08-13 02:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kendra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just allow the process of emotion to move on and the time to heal the pain that you are experiencing now. Just remember that you always have your role to continue to work on... as a wife.. a mother, a sister , a worker and the like... by doing this it would help you establish a solace and soothing feeling that what happened to your child has a purpose and only God above knows the reasons why it had to happen.
2006-08-13 10:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by DONG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no getting over your loss in time your mind and soul will lessen your loss but the most inportant thing to do is surround your soul with your most vivid happy memories and then surround yourself with all those out there that you depend upon and that depend upon you because sweet lady they are the people that will give you, love in your heart and peace in your mind , Be strong its will get easier with the days that pass
2006-08-13 02:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take a while but you have all the good memories....Think of the good times you had and don't be afraid to talk about them if thats what you want to do. You will never get over it but it does become easier
2006-08-13 02:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you stop and accept the fact. that he or she is at peace.a death of a love-one is never easy to program.now get yourself back together.and let a strong wind blow that cloud of depression down the hill......
2006-08-13 02:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by BIG TUDY OG INLAND EMPIRE X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry for your loss...there are three stages of a loss....the first is shock and denial...the second is anger and depression...and the third is acceptance and understanding..........you will go through all of them at different times and not necessarily in that order.....but we must go through them..it's the healing process...there is so exact time........this is from a book called "how to survive the loss of a love....a small book and a good guide for any loss...i hope you get some good answers that will help you get through the days ahead...blessings to you and your loved ones...
2006-08-13 02:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brother died nearly 3 years ago and I still miss him, but the pain becomes less severe day by day.
Talk about it with friends and other family members, or go to groups.
2006-08-13 02:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by m15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I never lost a sibiling. I hope I don't anytime soon either. But I expect it depends on how close you were to them. I say a year or so. You will always miss them.
2006-08-13 02:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋