ok well im 13 my b/friend is 16 and he wants to have sex i dont know if i should or not i mean i love him and i want to please him. also i want to have sex but im just not sure alot of my friends tell me not to but then again they dont like him.....
2006-08-12 18:58:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Will you have transportation to visit him after he is incarcerated for statuatory rape?
2006-08-12 19:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
DON'T DO IT!! I repeat, don't do it. Thirteen is too young to have sex even if you love him. You can't possibly enjoy it at that age. It would be a waste. If you give up your innocence to this moron. You will be sorry. I can guarantee you it will not be a good memorable experience for you and it will be the beginning of the end of your relationship with this guy. Having sex too early can create issues that will ruin all your future relationships in life. you have doubts so you know you are not ready. The next time he says if you love me you'll do it. Tell him if he loves you he wouldn't be asking you to do it. Don't let him take advantage of you. You need a bf you will have more in common with.
I checked you out & you are a little liar. 2 days ago you posted a question that said you were 16 . I bet you have along history of telling tales. Don't you? Have you ever heard of the little boy that cried wolf. When the real crisis comes there will be no help for you. Anyway I got my points what do I care?
2006-08-13 02:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by genuine1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have not already done so, DON'T. You will be glad you did not have sex yet when you are older. He should not even be asking you for such a thing. Tell him no, and keep telling him no. You will most likely have other boy friends as well before you get married, and he will also have other girl friends. (My mom used to have a saying - don't give the milk away for free, or the guy will sooner or later drop the entire cow, and "buy" another one that has fresh milk) I know it sounds corny, but it means wait until you have sex, as the guys look for 2 kinds of girls - the ones who will have sex, and the ones who are for marriage. Which one would you rather be? Please think about this very seriously - and those friends who say don't do it are RIGHT. Listen to them!!!!
2006-08-13 02:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to have sex! And you're too young to have a boyfriend who is 16. When I was 13, my boyfriend was 16, and I went through the same situation.
Your virginity is yours, and it's something that should be held on to as long as possible. Just don't try to grow up so fast!
2006-08-13 02:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are too young to have sex. If your boyfriend was a gentleman, he'd understand that you are too young still. Plus, you have to be aware that you can get pregnant from having sex--even if you are on birth control or use condoms--nothing is 100% effective. Are you ready for that responsibility if that should happen? Would your boyfriend be around if that happened? I doubt it.
Enjoy being 13--don't' feel pressured to do something you aren't ready for. Pleasing your boyfriend doesn't mean you have to do something you aren't ready for.
2006-08-13 02:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at such an young age. Please don't have sex yet its a beginning to a teenage life of meaningless sex. Everyone tells you to wait till you have met that right person and their right. Sex it more than the young mind can handle. So wait finish school, become a responsible young adult and then think about sex with that right person.
2006-08-13 02:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by PRBLKPRINCESS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT! it would probably end up being the biggest mistake of your life. i can pretty much guarentee that this guy will not be the guy you will marry. you need to think of the consquences of it if you have sex with him. pregnancy or even an STD. (who knows who else hes been with). if youre debating it, then you know deep down in your heart that you shouldnt. youre too young to have a physical relationship like that. and if the only way he'll stay with you is if you do have sex with him, then its not worth it. your relationship should not be based around that. listen to your friends in this situation, they dnot want to see you get hurt.
2006-08-13 02:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by laura 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have yah been datin if its less then like a week or month dont do it u r goin to be like an easy gurl ..but if its more then a year or somethin like dat u have to think about it alittle longer . ...... and make sure the both of you r in da same page as each other plus he is alittle to older than you
2006-08-13 20:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it who cares if he wants it he can wait for you if he really liked you a lot. and you dont know what love means so dont go saying that because you are only 13 and let me tell you, you have no idea what real love is.
2006-08-13 02:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by alli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok woah. slow WAY down. im 12, and i don't think sex is gross, but at ur age, it is. im not going to say u shouldn't be with this guy, i mean if you really like him go ahead. but wait on sex. i mean, if u REALLY want to, make sure he's wearin' a condom. don't get preggo, you'll wish you hadn't in the end.
2006-08-13 02:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by minnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i made sex in my firs time i was in the same age,,,13!!! & my boy was 16 too..! i know it's very early...but i loved him so mutch!!! & i was worry about !! but he telling me to trust him! and After all i agree..it was good..! and today we still together [=
so baby i think you should go 4 it..we live only once!!!
good luck!! [=
2006-08-13 02:41:57 · answer #11 · answered by palina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋