oh god.....i kissed my sister, she's going to tell our parents. what do i do//????

Question

ive been struggling with this attraction for weeks, now i just gave in. i pulled her close to me and kissed her on the lips-kissed her like i would kiss a boy.......she FREAKED out. i havent stopped crying and apologizing but she keeps saying shes gonna tell mom and dad. HELP :( this is the worst day of my life

Answer 1

Your best bet it to get to them first and convince them she started it.

Answer 2

It's not even close to the worst day in your life! If your sister tells your parents, you probably can't blame her--it's reason to freak out! But it's not the end of the world. Tell the truth, accept whatever happens if your parents feel you should be punished, and you'll know not to do it again. You might want to examine the reasons that it happened, however. I don't know how old everyone is in this scenario, but I'm sure it was a temporary impulse action, and you're not going to receive the death penalty or anything. If it leads you to find that you are attracted to your sister, then you need to realize that society does not accept that. It is leads you to find that you are attracted to your own sex, society is much more accepting, but it still isn't completely acceptable. Search your soul here, and try to come up with some answers about yourself. In the meantime, live with whatever your parents dole out, but it's not a reason to cry and beat yourself up! I'm sure that, from now on, you'll think twice before you do something like that, won't you?! Good luck, and don't worry!

Answer 3

Well, if your a lesbian, or bisexual, your sister and parents should accept you for who you are! If youre a heterosexual...just tell them that you weren't thinking straight, and you regret kissing her a lot. How old is your sister? If she's really young, like ...8 yrs, you COULD lie and say that she's out of her mind, and SHE's the one lying,but you for sure would have to tell the truth a few weeks or months afterward. The right thing to do is just let the "chips fall where they may", and just deal with it ..how bad can it be? Everything should work out fine. Take my advice and don't worry about it! Just step forward and tell the truth, that it was a mistake, and it won't happen again. God bless you and good luck!

Answer 4

First Of All, Why Are You Kissing Your Family Memebers! That's Something You Try With Someone You Don't Know, That's Sick, You Better Tell Your Parents Before She Does! What Were You Thinkin!!!

Answer 5

it is not too previous via flow to the police approximately this. possibly in case you record it you are able to preclude some thing comparable or worse happening to somebody else. once you're 7or 8 men of around 25 or 30 can look relatively old so tjhis guy would basically be in his Nineteen Fifties. The police could have the skill to hint this guy down even regardless of each and every thing this time.

Answer 6

kinda weird!!! but it happens...Doing such an act somehow tells you that something wrong is happening to you right now. I guess the best thing you can do is to explain to your sister what and why it happened. After a clear and honest explanation with her try also to explain it to your parents incase your sister had already told them. And instead of reacting negatively to what they might respond, ask them to help you figure out what's really going on with you. Its important that they'll know since they are the ones closest to you everyday and they are the ones who'll understand you much more than the others

Answer 7

Wow! I didn't forsee her to have this response. I would have expected you to at least ask permision first for just one small kiss. Did you try having a long conversation with her to talk about your feelings toward her? That it is nothing sexual or anything. I'm sure she will be understanding. I'm sorry this had to happen. I keep trying to tell you in each of your questions that you need to see an expert in this field for help.

Answer 8

Well depending on how old you are it probably won't be a "big deal." If you're young it's expected that everyone be attracted to someone soon enough. They'll probably just take you aside and discuss the concepts with you. There will be nothing to fear (if they are reasonable) and possibly some enlightenment for you.

Answer 9

Maybe you should talk to Mom and Dad. It seems like your romantic feelings toward your Sister may be too distracting for you to handle on your own! Parents are there to help! Give it a try!

Good Luck!

Answer 10

first of all talk to your sister calmly and then see if you can work things out and if you cant talk to your mom about it tell her you were going through a stage (or something else) and you didn't no what you were doing and you kissed her by accident and there is no relationship in that way and your mom will understand they always do and if you don't want to do that then when she tells just say you were drunk and Deny it or something!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK

Answer 11

Hehe..tht's just strange..but mmmk. Yea i agree with the try to get story to them first and pin it on your sister. Cry and freak out and stuff unless u r a really bad actor.Actually don't freak out.. I'm good at that stuff just repeat after me..

Calm and confident voice: mom (dramatic pause) I don't know what my sister was thinkin, like i don't think she really meant to be gay or anything but she kissed me on the lips and it freaked me out. Can you just like, *give a little giggle* try discourage tht kind of thing?

then your sister will come in the room freakin out and stuff and your mom will notice *muhahahaha* that she was scared of being told on.