2006-08-12 18:40:17 · 29 answers · asked by chloeshotspot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let him want to have sex with all the other women he wants to there is a difference in wanting to and doing it if he is doing it i think a good old fashioned castration is in order!
2006-08-12 19:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are putting out and enjoying the sex and the company...I would say,your partener is the one with the problem...if you both love each other and the sex is good,there no good reason for him to want to wander to different women...if this keeps up,i would kick his A*S out the door and find someone who will treat you with respect and honor...
Clowmy
2006-08-13 01:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are usually always cheaters. I think you should cut your losses and move on. You didn't say if you two are married. If you are, find out if he is willing to work on your relationship and get some counseling. Let him know he cannot have his cake so to speak and eat it too. Tell him to loose the other women or you walk or he does. Think about how you really feel about him. Can you continue to have this relationship with this man when you aren't the only woman in his life. Can you put up with that? It doesn't sound like it would be good for your self image. I am sure you feel hurt and like you don't measure up. I f I were you, I'd cut him off. You deserve better than that. Find someone new who will love and appreciate you. Good luck.
2006-08-13 01:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you can - once his mind is on it the temptation will probably never go away.
Even if you fulfill all his fantasies (that don't includ eother women), it will just make him more lusty.
In a marriage (or other relationship) you can own the body but you can't own the other's mind - so I'd suggest either break it off and let him have his way, or just deal with his thoughts.
If you love him, you want him to be happy more than you care about yourself, so think about htat.
2006-08-13 01:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Captain_Ahab_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling your partner is not guy but a girl? and if so this seems to be a rampant problem in the lesbian world, That is a them problem not a you problem, so nothing you do is going to stop this from happening. Oh, and act like you don't care, even if you do.
2006-08-13 01:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough question. You have to ask your self do you still love this person and also does this person still love you and what is the reason if any is there for this person to be cheating on you.
Also to have you said or done something for this person to cheat on you or not. But i can tell you this if this person truely loved you there wouldn't be any cheating. and also if there is any kids involved is it good for them to not have this person in there lifes due to this person's cheating.As for me i choose to not share my partner i love with anyone! Cheating is not a solution it's only a end. Best Wishes and good luck!
2006-08-13 01:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by michele k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend!you are kinda making me wonder,if you are the one licking the window,on the yellow short bus?alot of the other answers are cute,though,simple,You can,t make a person change no matter what the issues are,unless they are sure that one wants to make a change!I don,t know how long you two are together?but really don,t matter?he,s telling you there,No!RESPECT!to you!knowing that would hurt you deeply!I could see that happening in open relations!cool if choice!but,seems differ here!a problem?big eye opener!something he wants to do!or get you to agree upon?NOT!!!!!!!that,s plane out right!being unfaithful!!and not respecting you as his girl,partner however,and to add,it isn,t Love!Boo!when a man lay down with CATS,some times He or she(dogs)outside of their bond?tend to bring home"Fleas!!do you feel me,and what is done in the dark,will come to the light!for safe side girl!I would start useing protection!?for your safety!H.I.V-don,t discrimanate no one?wake up one morn,with a big sore over your lip!you,ll get the picture,so the moral is,if that is what he wants or decide to choose be a strong woman,and just let him GO!ain,t worth it,nine out of ten,prob already doing it,you just don,t know yet?
2006-08-13 02:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with this kind of thing. If he's doing that to you then you shouldn't be with him. And how are you certain that he wants to have sex with other women?
2006-08-13 01:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all dont change your body. Something that your doing is making him/her do that and you might not be showing him/her your love and Afecttion wit a captil A. give him/her a baCK/shoulder rub when he gets home, let him/her know that your their. and dont cover up, were some sexy lingerie once in a while.
Spice Up Ur Lyfe!!!! Get It On!!
2006-08-13 02:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave him, that way you can find a partner you can trust. Then you won't have to stop your partner from wanting to sleep with other women.
2006-08-13 01:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋