Almost evryone who answered her question said that it does not mean that she's a lesbian or bisexual, and that she's just curious/confuzed. At first I strongly disagreed and was offended by them dismissing a real orientation as confusion, but since I am a gay male how should I know? This got me wondering, do you straight ladies ever fantasize about women? Were you ever confuzed going through puberty? How about the straight men? Have you ever had sexual thoughts about another male, or is that impossible? Are sexual thoughts about a member of the same-sex a sure sign of homosuality or bisexuality?
2006-08-12 18:36:59 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it's normal for everyone to have sexual thoughts about someone, even if they are of the same sex. Whether or not those thoughts turn into emotions, or feelings, I believe, is the difference between confusion and sexual orientation.
I'm bi, by the way
2006-08-12 18:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
There was no talk of gayness when we were kids...so no one thought of it and I don't think I ever met anyone who was gay until late into my 20s, back in the 80s....it's like a flu epidemic these days so I am certain it is all driven by porn, the internet, and total lack of morals and lack of family structure and religious beliefs.
With no one to guide kids and nothing to believe in and no hope and poverty and desperation, etc. etc. and with the media driving what society should be it's all led to sex, sex, sex, and sex. And the more you can pervert sex, the better. So now that everyone has tried a guy a girl this end that end, what now? Bored yet? Time to turn to beastiality? Do it with an alien? I just don't know how far people will take it all ....
I just feel sorry for all the kids out there...so messed up...I wish I could be here in 100 years to see what kind of children THEY raise and what their lives will be like.
2006-08-12 18:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal, just because she finds da same sex attractive doesnt mean shes bi or les. Shes just growing up and curiosity is takin over. Most girls will tell another if another grl is pretty or not, its natural. Its is not such a big deal. Girls judge other girls all the time.
2006-08-12 19:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest with you when I was 14 never fantasize with ladies I always loved guys no doubt, but every human being is so different and unique so considerate that this person maybe is confused or maybe wants to try something different well see with the time.
2006-08-12 18:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive always thought that the female body is much more attracitve than a mans.......some people would deny it but we all have fantasies or at least thoughts about being with the same sex even if we consider ourselves heterosexual.
2006-08-12 18:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋