Well i just got back from the beach and i met a guy.. he really likes me way more than a friend. lets say a "stalker" type... well i dont want to break his heart i just want to be friends with him because he lives in a totally different area and i just wanna be friends... is that bad??
2006-08-12 18:27:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No it is not bad... it is what you might call personal choice...
Tell the bloke straight up that you are not interested in him in a romantic way...
You can't break his heart you arent in a relaitonship with him so he hasnt invested his heart yet..... his mind and fantasy perhaps but not his heart...
2006-08-12 18:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you tell this guy he may feel bad any way. Just tell him straight up that all you are is just a friend. If he can't handle it thats on him. Sorry, to be so blunt but thats the way; I had a situation like that and now we talk maybe a few times out of the week which is what i wanted.
2006-08-12 18:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,Hi!no it isn,t a bad thing!how do you tell him?for safety precautions when do ,if be around,have someone near you observing you both?this guy seems like he wouldn,t take no easly?but if over the phone,better choice!and open your mouth,just like you did here!and let him know quickly!so you wouldn,t have major issues(drauma).and if don,t get the picture,girl!don,t even be a friend too him,major probs down the line save yourself from such,okay!wish you luck!and please!if gets (he) out of hand,open your mouth and let someone know what is going on with!?it will be BAD!if gets WORST?
2006-08-12 18:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by simply saying hey, wait a minute , what your thinking and i'm thinking are at oppisite ends of the world,, i do not like you as much as you appear to be implying that you like me, (I), JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS. be up front, then your not leading him on and he can not say that you did. then if he wants to take a hike ( that's his perogative), once he's met honestley one on one,
then , he needs to make the decession, as to does or can he accept simply being friends , if not parting early on is far kinder than allowing him to believe a lie. that you care for him like he's expecting you to feel the same towards him as he feels towards
you. just be honest and up front, put the truth in his court to deal with.
2006-08-12 18:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by almaleanewton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know....but what ever u do u still are going to break the dude's heart....so try and be nice sweet and kind so he feels a lil better....good luck
I wish u all the best with both of the guy's
2006-08-12 18:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him which you appreciate being around him as a buddy yet top now you're no longer waiting for a courting. permit him comprehend you opt for for time to return to a style what you opt for for to do in existence and a courting now would intervene with your plans. tell him as quickly as you have found out what you opt for for to do then you definately would be waiting for a courting yet you do no longer comprehend with who basically yet and he could think of roughly courting somebody else. wish it incredibly is a few help. stable success
2016-11-04 11:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by ai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just said. I like you, but, not in that way, can we just be friends? He says no, problem solved. He says ok, you've got a new friend.....one that likes to stalk people! LOL
2006-08-12 18:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ca-C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him--it'll never work-- give him the reasons- living area-- study--family--old boyfriend ---whatever--(with attacking him personally--but if he is persistant--then tell him the personal reasons too about him)-- do it fast--
you have to be cruel to be kind sometimes--
do it fast----if not------ his hope will get stronger-and then it will be harder-- its up to him to accept the friendship and nothing more-- you have made your decision--you don't need to explain much more than that--- drop him now--
good luck-
cheers
2006-08-12 18:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT LIKE YOU!!!
Bam!!! It's like magic. He'll take the pain and you can go on with your life.
Rejection happeneth to us all lol
2006-08-12 18:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him before he gets the wrong idea, just be honest
2006-08-12 18:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by cnkbrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋