2006-08-12 18:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by soc40173 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, absolutely. You cannot imagine how beneficial it is until you have a grown daughter of your own. It is not only tradition, it shows so much respect and honor towards the parents. And it is impressive to your bride-to-be. I mean, you want their daughter, and you want them to be okay with that, right? DEFINITELY ask them, dude. It's a test of yourself that all men should go through. Not doing it is a sign of a coward. NO woman wants to marry a coward.
2006-08-12 18:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by MomWtrmn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you're over 18 (or whatever the age in your state is with regard to who can do what they want and with regard to how old you have to be to get married).
I'm not a big fan of asking for consent just to be nice or to be traditional either.
2006-08-12 18:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need it, but it is a respectful thing to do. You want to be good with your in-laws right? I think they'll really appreciate it that you took the time to ask them first if it were okay, for you to marry their daughter. It also really shows respect towards your in-laws, and you'll know that when your getting married, it's okay and you don't have to worry about them(your in-laws) hating you because you didn't ask them first.
I think it'd also be good if you asked your OWN parents or guardian if it were okay for YOU to get married. i hope they give you some guidance and reasurance.
take care.
2006-08-12 19:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you should ask them before getting engage with someone . This is one way of respecting your parents.
2006-08-12 19:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Reesie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respectfully Yes!
Getting engaged sets the pace for marriage.
The first time you present your bride to be, is of very importance.
You are a gentleman. You will have success!
2006-08-12 18:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you trust their opinion, then it'd be nice to ask their consent. experience is important, typically older people have more. also, your parents know you well. i'd want my parents consent.
2006-08-12 18:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You only need their permission if you are actually getting married and you are under the legal age in your state.
2006-08-12 18:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to ask for permission.
It's highly encouraged to talk to them and get their permission first though.
2006-08-12 18:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by blessed_11706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the one getting married but i think you should tell the and listen to their opinion without interfering with yours
2006-08-12 18:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by dulce_boricua_pr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋