First try to get him in private in person before you attempt this. You'll be more comfortable if no one else is there to hear this personal conversation. It will also be more honest and since if you don't do it over the phone.
If you two are really close, ease into the subject, don't blurt it out. Tell him that you are starting to care for him as more than a friend. See how he reacts. Don't press him to feel the same way, or even tell you how he feels. Teenage guys are notoriously shy when it comes to their feelings. They have too much exposure that tells them it isn't "manly" to express their feeling. Just say something like, "I am starting to like you as more than a friend. I wanted you to know, and I hope we can still be friends". If he tells you he feels the same way, GREAT! If not, than ask him to please not be mad, and tell him you value your friendship too much to allow this to get in the way, and you don't want to loose such a great guy as a friend. Guys usually eat up stuff that inflates their egos.
2006-08-12 18:19:50
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answered by welches_grape_jelly 6
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first: go to an area u both can talk without anybody hearing fro privacy. tell him that u have been really good friends and that u have gotten really close to him over that time. express ur trust and how happy u feel around him. then disclose the fact that u want to be in a relationship. make sure u say bf/gf so he doesnt get the wrong idea....by taking these steps he'll figure out what you want and decide once u formally ask him. trust me this works!!!!!
2006-08-13 01:12:21
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answered by Red Hot Chili Peppers 3
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I think that the best thing is to have a conversation about relationships and then maybe you could tell how he feels about it and if he likes you. I guess after that it would not hurt to ask him to hang out sometime. good luck
2006-08-13 01:15:06
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answered by blinkdan04 2
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I think you should be honest and let him know, worse case he says sorry but we should just be friends. If it works out just make sure that if anything happens to your relationship you guys can still be friends. If you don't act fast someone else might move in.
Good Luck
Moskie257
2006-08-13 01:13:09
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answered by moskie257 2
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ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
good one put ur feeling out in the open if he dose like u then yall be together if he dont sure it be a lil akward but then u can crush on a lot more people
lol
2006-08-13 01:12:17
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answered by Anonymous
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tell him wt u feel 4 him,if he undrstdns ur feelngs u cn carry on if nt thn u cn surely b frds.all the best.
2006-08-13 01:22:26
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answered by sania 2
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tell him how much u adore him since the time u saw him.
in any kind of relationship the communication of your feelings is the key to everything. you gotta b articulate. it's better to do it as soon as possible.
best of luck.
2006-08-13 01:15:12
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answered by Arps 2
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just ask him how he feel about you and tell him that you want to be more than friends
2006-08-13 01:13:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Flirt wit him alot n then tell him EASY
2006-08-13 01:18:07
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answered by ♥JAMIE♥ 2
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Tell him what you feel!
2006-08-13 01:10:57
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answered by Chief 3
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