How could I tell if a dude in my class is gay or maybe my teacher! UGHH!
2006-08-12 17:41:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Look, the gay guys dont care if youre straight or not. We really dont care. We dont want you. Youre straight.
Sure, we might think some straight guys are cute and stuff, maybe sometimes a little curious, but at the end of the day we like other gay guys.
You really dont have much to worry about. Its not a big deal to us.
2006-08-12 17:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A "gay homo". A little rhetorical in that phrasing, I must say. You are prejudice and your prejudice is causing homophobia. Homosexuality is a genetic trait that predisposes either a male or female to this NATURAL attraction to the same sex. Much like girls who are considered "tomboys", certain amounts of testosterone in the womb can predispose a girl to more athletic activity. There is no "gay" virus, it is completely genetic wiring.
Why you are scared is because you are prejudice and you have a fear that men will "rape" you or flirt with you, and you are not confident enough in your own sexuality to handle this scenario. The truth is that homosexual males are not going to do any of the things you have dreamt up in your mind. GROW UP!
2006-08-12 18:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if I'm wrong but it sure sounds like you are prejudice . I am not gay myself & am so OK in who & what I am to let others be what they & who they are. Just because others are gay don't mean they will make me gay. Yes I know lots of gays; guys & girls. So what. that's them not me. How could I not love them? I was taught that there is only one that can truly judge & that one does not walk the earth.
2006-08-12 17:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you scared of "gay homos." This is a better question to ask. Aside from asking him you can't really know. Your "gaydar" may be correct. I think you should treat him just like you would treat anyone else who was a little fruity. If you think he's annoying then fine. You can even let him know. It is fine to find him annoying, just don't go around saying all gays are annoying.
2006-08-12 17:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. there are male that have Feminine characteristics but are not gay. Just as their are females that have male characteristics but are not lesbians.
a simple thanks for the compliment but i don' t swing that way way is usually enough for one of them to get the hint and leave you alone.
they would have to tell you before you know for sure.
Now then you may go through a phase where having sex with another male would seem safer that with a female temporally. or if you have to many bad experiences with females that turn you off of them. then you have three choices .do without (become celibate, make your right hand your best friend, or try the gay life style.
2006-08-12 18:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The3 acceptable theories at this time are
1. Missing the father image and seeking that closeness from another male
2. Having sex with or without consent while the sexual psychic is being formed
3. Having a mom who wanted a girl so bad that she did not release the testosterone @ 3 months pg. to change the baby from girl to boy. or was unable to release the hormone
2006-08-12 17:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you be scared? I've never heard of gays or gay gangs attacking and molesting straight guys. It's actually been the other way around--if you are afraid, it may be that you are actually attracted to other guys which is natural if society didn't interfere.
2006-08-13 03:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a homo by judging some of your questions, are you coming out of the closet.
And what makes a guy homo is genetics.
2006-08-12 18:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by unbeatablec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you afraid of? Are you afraid that gay people can give you cooties? Are you afraid that gayness is contagious? Are you afraid that alien monsters will leap from their stomachs and attack you? Are you afraid that someone might ask you out? Are you afraid that you might be gay?
Rest assured that gay people will not hurt you.
The simple way to tell if someone is gay is to ask.
But I recommend that you assume that everyone you meet is a normal human being until they tell you otherwise.
2006-08-12 17:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by acornfullfilled 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is a "gay homo"?? A undercover straight person??
2006-08-12 17:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋