MY EX-GIRLFRIEND KEEPS CALLiNG ME.. IDEAS?

Question

I BROKE UP WITH HER A COUPLE OF WEEKS OR SO AGO BUT SHE ISN'T OVER IT YET. SHE IS HOT, BUT YESTERDAY WHEN SHE CAME BY MY HOUSE LATE AT NIGHT AND I DIDN'T GO FOR HER PROVOCATIVE INVITATIONS, I ALMOST FELT LIKE AN IDIOT..

SHE ACTUALLY TOLD ME SHE IS OK WITH JUST MANTAINING ONLY THE PHYSICAL ASPECT OF OUR RELATION - IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.. I AM ABOUT TO FALL FOR THAT.. WOULD IT BE TOTALLY WRONG?

MERCI!

Answer 1

its a female ploy my friend, in her mind, she wants to keep you around for the physical so that she can work the other angles later.... just forget about her bro

Answer 2

Monseiur, are you serious? Or is this another one of your jokes? But if it's true, don't fall for that, it would be wrong if you two really don't have any emotional connection. Just tell her it's over, you are probably so gorgeous and charming that there are many other girls who would fall in love with you. Don't sell yourself to her, monseiur, if she only wants to use you, then shut the door on her. Such a lovely gentleman like yourself deserves much more than that. Est-ce que j'ai raison?

And Monseiur, I got your answer to my question just before it was deleted (someone must have reported me for "private correspondence") That was a lovely poem, it makes you even more of an enigma to choose something like that. Have I ever met anyone more charming? Is that all you wanted to say? Vous etes trés aimable.

Answer 3

If she's still hooked on you, it is unlikely she can maintain only a physical relationship (and, honestly, most women cannot--bonding and attachment go along with sex). I suggest setting strong boundaries, e.g., don't let her into your apartment again, keep phone calls short and be straight to the point ("Sorry, it's just not going to work between us") and then get off the phone quickly.

Giving mixed messages, for example sleeping with her, will only give her false hope, and that's just not kind. All the best to you.

Answer 4

If you don't want the relationship, tell her straight out.
Resist the urge to do things. Cut her off, or she can tell you that you are sending her mixed messages.
Maybe in time she will get over it.
There's other people that you can get with if that's really what you want anyway.
If you want to keep her friendship or value her at all as a person, I would recommend not sleeping with her any further.
She's vulnerable and so thats likely why she's doing it... she may be addicted to the sex and/or reaching for the relationship.

Answer 5

yes it would be totaly wrong cause she would jsut pull u back in she sounds kinds nuts get rid of her dude.. tell her if she dont quit calling ur gonna call the polce cause its called stalking and next thing u know ur swimming with the fishes. save ur self before something happeneds cause u never know what she will do. when it comes to ppl like her weather it be a male or female witch in ur case its a female u need to do something about it before something happeneds cause all she has to do is get pregnant and u are hers for life in a way now she cant make u marry her or anything but u would end up with other issuse most girls are not okay with just sex and things like that. even if thay say thay are especly if its after a break up she aint into it for just the sex she just wants to trap u.. run run run Get help now!!!... trust me i have known many girl like her....

Answer 6

nicely i truthfully wouldnt be happy with it even nevertheless it relies upon how lots have confidence u have on your courting. Is it basically harmless chit chat they're having or something greater i could ask him what they communicate approximately. i could think of that if he somewhat cares for you he would desire to grasp you're stricken by utilising all of it. have you ever asked him to alter his cellular sort? What replaced into his reaction? He must be attempting to make you jealous if he's insecure, or nonetheless he's making you sense injury and that may no longer a chuffed courting to be in! consult with him returned and clarify how lots it hurts you and if he isnt interested in the way you sense then he aint nicely worth being with, wish this helps stylish, solid success!

Answer 7

Well is it over or isn't it? If you still want to be initmate then obviously not! But as long as neither of you are seeing anybody apart from each other-I mean new girlfriend/new boyfriend. Then no one will be hurt. On the other hand there is new girlfriend/boyfriend then I say it would be wrong. If the third party/parties found out they would not understand and you and she would be hurting them.

Answer 8

She's determined to win you back any way she can.

Why did you break up with her?

You're in for more of the same if you go along with this.

She sounds totally needy, and that's just sick.

Are you that desperate?

You ask if it's totally wrong.... do you mean immoral?
Well maybe. But that's not the worst of it.
You would be feeding her sickness.
If you disliked her enough to break up with her, then be man enough to stick to your guns.

Answer 9

This is the oldest trick in the book! She is telling you that she is "okay with just the physical" just long enough to get pregnant and snag you for life! She thinks that if you cave in sexually, eventually, she will get you back for good. Don't do it!

RUN!! Run for the hills! Find a girl that you want to spend your life with -- not just have sex with. You will be so much happier.... and you won't end up with a baby.

You're welcome.... Good luck!

Answer 10

the physical part could lead right back into the actual relationship that you just came out of. its up to you whether or not you want that. but it seems like she is just trying to keep you in one way or another trying to get you back little by little. the opinions are here, you have to make a decision yourself. blessed be.

Answer 11

why'd you break up with her in the first place. you should not sleep with her because she obviously still has feelings for you. Don't do it. change your number (that's realistic). when she comes around for a booty call, ignore her, don't answer the door (moving would seem sorta unrealistic). if she persists, call the police, they'll escort her @ss outta there!

good luck