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my name is Jahlyn n i am 18,me n my boyfriend had sex last tuesday and he came inside me 3 times. this mornin i started bleedin but it wasnt as much as u usualy have when i start my bleeding and right now im bloating. this afternoon i took a preg, test and it came out negative but i still think im pregnant n some way. Can some one help me, (im think inabout takin another test this upcomin Tuesday or Wenesday.) We are ready for a child 2 be in our lives!

Some 1 help me pzl!

2006-08-12 17:12:29 · 13 answers · asked by Lil Mama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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yeah just take another one in a week or so..sometimes there isnt enough hormone in your pee yet..sometimes if you want to be pregnant..you get it in your head that you are and sometimes your body will make you think you are too..just take another test..or go to doctor

2006-08-12 17:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by aoinerekai 3 · 0 0

Usually, you ovulate 12-14 days before your have your period. Therefore, if you have a pretty regular 28-32 cycle, you would have been ovulating around July 30-Aug.1. If you had unprotected sex around those days, you might be pregnant. Since the egg is only viable for 2-3 days, there is no way your sex last week could get your pregnant.

You are probably just having a late start on your period, which could be casued by many things, like stress, a change in diet, or other factors.

If you want to get pregnant, I'd recommend that you get ovulation predictor tests at the pharmacy, and read about when your fertile times are online. Since there is a rather narrow window of time you can conceive, the more you know, the easier it will be.

Good luck!

2006-08-13 00:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by MissM 6 · 0 0

Oh, boy. You have no idea what you're in for. Most newbies usually don't. All people think about is feeding, changing, and losing sleep when they think about babies. But they forget those babies grow up, and become children who talk back and make it their personal mission to try and kill themselves by swallowing small objects and sticking things in light sockets- and it's your mission to try and keep them from doing so, and then teenagers (like you) who become independent thinkers and are convinced they have everything all figured out and don't need you breathing down their neck. You have no idea whether you're financially ready yet either, because you don't know yet how much it actually costs to raise a child. At 18 you couldn't possibly make that much money. And the whole being unmarried thing... don't get me started on that! No one here is trying to be insulting, just keepin' it real and stating the facts. I would definitely wait a while longer. What you want right now isn't going to be what you want at 20, 23, 25... you will go through a lot of changes through that time, and once you have a child, you're committed, and it's a little too late to change your mind, because you don't just have yourself to think about anymore in terms of how and who will be affected by the decisions you make. Really think this over... it's a much bigger life change than you could possibly imagine!

2006-08-13 02:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0 0

You can go to the doctor tomorrow and take a blood test. Pregnancy will show up anytime in your bloodstream. Or take a pregnancy test 4 days before your period starts...just get an EARLY RESULT pregnancy test.

How can you be ready for a child at 18 yrs old? You cant be financially stable! And why would you want to have a child with a boyfriend? If you are ready for children....get married first and then save money! When you are prepared, you can offer your child a better life.

2006-08-13 00:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 0 0

no offense but it sounds to me that you are trying to have a baby together. Let me give you a ray of sunshine but if you are going to have a baby you will all in good time. If you do not start your period take another test. Some women test an false negatives as well as false positives. Good luck to you being a mom at 18 and 19 yeas old is hard I had my first a 19 but I would not trade it for the world. AT least I can be young when their all grown.... Good luck

2006-08-13 00:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by savannah_smiles25 2 · 0 0

So seeing as you are ready I am guessing you have all of this

A stable home for the baby to grow up in

Both have jobs making good money

One of you has a vehicle

Insurance that covers medical bills for pregnancy and delivery

Money for everything a baby needs and trust me it gets way over thousands just getting ready for the baby to come into the world

Know how to do laundry because babies go threw several clothes a day because till they are about a year old they do a lot of spitting up and it is always fun to get stains out of thier clothes

Are prepared to get woke up several times during the night with the baby, yes hun they do not sleep all night long

prepared to deal with the baby when it is sick and take it from someone who has a two year old when they get sick it is a nightmare and they puke everywhere and it comes out of thier nose

are prepared to get up at 3am and stay up with the baby because he or she wants to be up and play

have a huge amount of patience because trust me once that kid hits 1 it all goes down hill, they get into EVERYTHING every 5 minutes and throw tantrums when they do not get thier way

Do you know how to change a babies diaper? You have to change it every hour in less it takes a poo then you have to change it right away and you have to feed the baby every 2-4 hours and burp it every like 10 minutes or so during feeding

What happens if your boyfriend walks away and says F*** you and the baby? Then what do you do? I have seen so many guys say they are ready for a baby andf then when the baby comes they see what it is actually like and how hard ti is and they walk away and mom gets stuck being a single mommy taking care of baby and paying for baby all by herself.

This is just some of the stuff you have to do and have to be prepared for , thier are SEVERAL more

2006-08-13 01:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy_Lynn 3 · 0 0

Thats Happened 2 Me Too You Take The Pregnancy Test After Missing Ur Period In 2 weeks,,,Or go 2 the doctor have blood test done..

2006-08-13 00:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0 0

My prego test was negative the first 3 times...Finally it was positive. Take the one test that can tell you w/i a couple days of conception.

Rethink the baby thing. I got prego at 17 and got married. I often wonder how things might have been different had I thought it through. Do you want a baby for you or because of the life you can offer your baby. A baby deserves to be born to a husband and wife who LOVE eachother and can adequately support and care for that child.

2006-08-13 00:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0 0

First of all you are 18 live your life a child is a huge responsibility. Yes you may still be pregnant so wait a few weeks and take another test it measures your HGC so if your not that far along your HGC may be low resulting in a negative test. GOOD LUCK. ITS BETTER TO WAIT THOUGH IF YOUR NOT.

2006-08-13 00:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

You are not ready for a child now. Take it from me. You are not even old enough to drink yet. Get yourself together financially and emotionally then think about a child. I thought I wanted one when I as 18. I got one at 21, and two more after him. IT'S HARD, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE YOUNG!! Don't do that to yourself.

2006-08-13 00:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by poomoonu 2 · 0 0

Do you even know the cost of raising a child? Does your boyfriend? If not, the next time he wants to "come" inside you, the two of you need to go and get a puppy instead.

2006-08-13 01:48:30 · answer #11 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0 0

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