have you ever questioned your sexuality?

Question

i was just curious to know and please say if u have and tell the truth...no one knows u here so just say

Answer 1

everyone does at some point in their life

Answer 2

I've noticed all the people who say things like "if someone says they haven't they're lying" and "everyone has".

Speaking only for myself and for a few people that I know very well and have had conversations with, everyone hasn't questionned it. Some people have known since they were about six years old exactly where they stand when it comes to that. It is very difficult to try to describe the absolute sureness you have when you have never questionned it. You just take for granted (in my case) that I always liked boys, and the idea of questionning that doesn't even occur to you.

I don't really understand why you have so many people saying that "everyone does" and if they don't they're lying because I just know for a fact that while (apparently) many must there is such a thing as a person who never did - plain and simple.

Apparently, from the answers that are here so far, it is not uncommon to question it; and I'm not saying its a horrible thing if someone does, but it is a lie (even if they don't realize it) to tell you that "everyone does and if they say they don't they're lying".

I can't speak for men, but I can tell you when you are so sure of your sexuality as a woman you find the idea of other women repulsive. You can be strong, smart and touch in your own way; but you also feel how feminine you are in the way you move and in the way you've always seen boys and men versus the way you see women.

Answer 3

Our pursuit of freedom has reached a point where we no longer care about the opinions of others, the morals of society, and especially not the standards established by God. Our society has fought desperately to legalize alcohol, abortion,drug usage and possession as well as another form of sin so wicked that God calls it an abomination- homosexuality. Laws dating back more than 100 years ago that condemned sodomy ( sex between males )have been abolished in almost every state because of the rights of homosexuals that society now honors. Althought during the Old Testament days God had commanded that those living in such a lifestyle to be stoned to death, we now accept this behavior as a legal right ( Freedom?) to practice it.
Throughout the ages God has never changed His mind regarding the family unit although mankind has attempted to change it. But it has always been the design by God to unite one man with one woman and produce children.
Man has attempted to change his standing under the law of God to follow his own fleshly lusts. God condemns homosexuality, " Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind; it is an abomination."
Our present society not only accepts homosexuality, but some political as well as religious leaders are anxiously promoting it to show themselves to " politically correct ". But God has a different viewpoint on the subject. Some say that they are born with the homosexual gene. This is totally false. We are all born in sin due to the fall of Adam; genes are not the problem-sin is!
Homosexual activity is notoriously disease-prone. In addition to diseases associated with heterosexual promiscuity, homosexual actions facilitate the transmission of anual herpes, hepatitis-B, intestinal parasites, and aids.
Secular psychologists assure us that children raised in Lesbian and Gay households are similar to children raised in heterosexual homes on characteristics such as intelligence, development, moral judgements, self-concepts, social competence and gender identity. The humanists have forgotten one important ingredient. " Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." ( Proverbs 22:6). Just as homosexual conduct has been punished in the past, so it will also be punished in the future!!

Answer 4

Most people do question their sexuality. I began questioning my sexuality when I was 16 (I'm 24 now). I feel in love with a good friend of mine and knew from my experiences with her that; I was bisexual. I dated girls and guys after her. I didn't matter what sex someone was to me...there is beauty in males and females. There are pro and cons with dating either sex.

Answer 5

Ive questioned alot in my life..when I had been used and abused so much by guys I wondered if it would be better to just go for girls.lol..but then realized I am not a lesbian and then whattya know! my now husband finds me and we fall in love!

Answer 6

Of course. I think anyone that says they haven't is lying.

Answer 7

Yep. Questioned it, rejected it, denied it, accepted it.

Answer 8

yea, girls can be pretty hot sometimes.

Answer 9

everyone has.