Ater 15 years of marriage, how do you overcome being bored with eachother?f?

Question

Married for 15 years and completely bored out of my skull!!!!

Answer 1

Maybe the reason you two are bored with each other is because you have become boring people. Why not try something different from the "routine"? Take a romantic getaway together...somewhere where you two have never been. Spice up your sex life and do something you've never done before. Meet new groups of people, learn new hobbies or try new actitivities together, whether it be sports, dancing, singing, you name it! Or better yet, learn new skills together. The sky is the limit. Get out of the box and use your imagination! My husband and I always do something different everytime we're together, no matter how ridiculous it may seem to other people. It helps to keep the boredom and staleness away. Whatever you choose, make sure it's something you both can enjoy. Good luck.

Answer 2

Have you given thought to your hubbie's feelings. He could be bored too. Why dont you put some excitement into things. Use your imagination, there are a million and one things you could do together to change the monotony. Start with a vacation to an exotic Island. Bear in mind that these days not many people have marriages that lasts that long because of boredom and thinking that the grass is greener on the other side and end up more miserable breaking up and ending up lonely and more bored than they were at first. I dont mean to add to the boredom but it sounds like you need a little excitement to spice up life thats all. Am I wrong?

Answer 3

You are bored because he doesn't cherish what was lovely to him ant more. Your like dried up beef jerky. He;'s looking for something sweeter and tender and pink inside,....sounds dirty doesn't...it's the facts . A younger woman will steal a man away from his wife if he gives her an opportunity for him to enter sexually into another world of love...and that love could be any lady or young lady that has the desire to play with your husband knowing he is married and ..it doesn't matter. She becomes his mistress. He soon finds himself not wanting you anymore. That is just one scenario, the other is that he may not be having no affairs, but finds you unattractive and not exciting anymore because he has fullfilled his sexual desire with you. You got o bed and it is like same ole same ole.
That gets old real quick. He knows you in and out. He has done everything he wanted to with you and is fullfilled. It makes you feel used and used up in a sense, but actually, he just hasn't grown up enough to a good Man and understand what he really has at home...he's looking for peace outside of the home and that spells trouble. If he finds you not atrractive anymore...another Man will.
You have heard it time and time again. That very reason is because the opther Man gets to taste you for the first time and it can be fun and last a good while untiul he is fullfilled and once again, your kicked to the curb.
You are a very beautfuyl lady and you always remember that and slap some sense and stand by your Man, but if he has realy gone overboard, he's going to lose the best thing that ever happen to him....YOU! Good Luck:);):)

Answer 4

Thrills are over. Hopefully during the 15 years you have developed things that will take it's place. They are more important anyway. If you have developed this kind, tender, supportive relationship and/or family and a warm, comforting home it sort of makes you feel so glad to have the other person and it does revive so very "in love" feeling which wipe away any traces of boredom. I can honestly say I have never been bored in 23 years of marriage. It is possible.

Answer 5

On September 23rd, it will be our 15th anniversary..so you and I have been married close to the same amount of time. What he and I do...is joke around a lot! We try not to take things too seriously...and life is better than ever because of those things. Laughter is great medicine! I know this is short and simple, but I really do believe it is the glue that holds us together. Good luck!

Answer 6

Do you remember how you got him/her interested in the first place? You are still the same person and I assume your partner is still the same person you both were before marriage and still like the same things..

Remind yourself of how you conquered your partner the first time around.

Staying married is an art.... start being creative.... become an interesting person yourself worthy of pursuit...

More touching always works and not necessaryly in a sexual way, just touching... sitting together, holding hands etc.

Answer 7

Start going out to romantic places or plays, dinner,basketball games, on cruises or trips, or even going to parks or planning trips to different places you never been.You try to spend time with them more outside of the house, try doing a sport together you both like , go skiing or rock climbing or just set up candles around house and rose peddles and some different positions

Answer 8

After 15 yrs you should be so comfortable with each other like hand and glove. How can you feel bored? Try to be contented.

Answer 9

Fine something you like to do by yourself,a hobby,bingo,go shopping with a friend,need to keep your mind off of your spouse.There are times
you will experience this in your life,life is not a bang all the time.You are
not the only one going through this in life.Love conquer all.

Answer 10

i'm having the same problem as you,hopefully tomorrow changes that were going to a concert together and were going to try some roleplaying for the 1st time together if that doesn't work then i gueasse i'll start running around the house in short skirts with no panties on.