I had my first boyfriend when I was 15 years old and he treated me very badly. I think I might be over him it's just that I can't get over the bad times he put me threw. I am 18 years old now and almost never leave the house because I am so ashamed of myself and sceard of seeing him. What do I do.
2006-08-12 16:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He did not physical abuse me he mentaly abused me you guys have it all wrong!
2006-08-12 17:23:46 · update #1
1st of all you need to stop blaming your self and relize that none of what he did to you was your fault. he was just a asshole. Let me give you some advice and I am talking from experiance most of the men in my life before i met my husband beat me tortured me and worst of all emotionaly abused me. and the only way to get over that is time and therapy! i sugget you look for counsler and if moneys a little tight there are organizations that give group and one on one counseling for free contact you local women in distress center and tell them the situation they can get you set up with some programs for free. thats what i did and it really helped me.
Good luck sweety
and remember f#@$ what he told you!
2006-08-12 17:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The abuse he put you through is still going on. Now he has control over you because you almost never leave the house. Is this any way to live? You need to reclaim your life. Maybe therapy is the way to go to deal with the issues. Are you ashamed because he was abusive to you? That was not your fault. I am sure you didn't ask to be abused. STOP letting the S.O.B. continue to ruin your life!!! You have the right to live a normal life. Reclaim your freedom and if it takes professional help to get it done then use it, it is nothing to be ashamed of. 90% of the people I know need professional help.....well, except me. Okay, especially me. Please get help with this matter. His abuse needs to stop and stop now. You are 18 years old and should be enjoying life, not being a prisoner in your own home!
Best of luck to you. I rooting for you!!!!!
2006-08-12 17:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off be strong. remind yourself that you are strong woman. Dont be affraid of him now because your not with him. Never let a man keep you in hiding. Start by going places where you know he will never go or be. Take it slow. Go out with your friends, ones you trust. About the ashamed part: you need to ask yourself what are you ashamed of if you can change it then do so. If you are blaming yourself for anything, DONT. Seek help from a therapist if you need to. Keep your head up. Things get better.
2006-08-12 17:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by tigerthurman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over him. But the abuse from him is making you losing self esteem. See a psychiatrist
2006-08-12 17:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he put you through hell. You need to have counseling with someone about abuse so that you can feel better about yourself.
2006-08-12 16:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tiny Jr. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋