im sad and i need help?

Question

ive been really sad lately. i mean really really really sad and i dont know what to do. im always crying and i dont feel accepted by anyone anywhere what should i do

Answer 1

Just by asking for help, has got my attention:

I am so sorry that you have been really sad lately, always crying, & not feeling accepted by anyone anywhere.

I have been there more times than I can count.

1st. of all stop painting all your portraits with the colour black, start using other colours.

People can be cruel sometimes, & hurt people not even knowing they did so.

I have done it, & probably I will do it again. It is human nature to be human, make mistakes, feel the ups & downs of life.

I will tell you a little bit about myself.

Growing up as a kid was a hard rough life, once I found out that the parents I was raised with weren't my parents. I felt betrayed that my parents who gave birth to me would give me away. I grew up for years wondering what did I do wrong? Why didn't they want me? I was so sad, angry, & ailenated.

What I have learnt is, we can pick who are family is, or change our past, but we do have the power to change our future.

I found out that my birth mother was a manic despressant, & my father left.

The best thing my parents could do for me was to give me to a family to get a 2nd. chance in life. Yes it was hard, & it is hard to live the life that Hollywood portrays.

At school, I wasn't popular, but I was always looking for acceptance from everyone.

I never seemed to get the acceptance that I have so longed been craving for. But all of this has made me a stronger & better person.

I am 39 years old now, through my life, I have only had a handful of friends. My last friend I had befriended me while I was dating my girlfriend of 4 years. To make a long story short. I lost my girlfriend, & I got rid of my last friend.

He wasn't a friend, he was just a snake waiting to move in for the kill. We were planning on getting married, & all that didn't happen, but, they got married though.

I see her every so often, I see how she has aged, & I don't see the happiness that we once shared.

Ever since that break up, I lived 10 years of hell, I dated on & off again relationships that lasted anywhere from a few weeks to a few months.

No light seem to be at the end of my tunnel.

One day I just called out to God & said, I want my 10 year of my life that I lost back. I couldn't change time but I was given a beautiful wife who is 10 years younger. I have 2 children, my son 4 years old, & my daughter one year old.

I wouldn't change anything. I came out the winner, it might have been a struggle, but I have a wife that loves me, & kids that look up to me.

I am not saying all this to make you feel bad!

I want you to know, that your days will get better!

Stop looking at the ground & start looking up!!! At least when you're looking up there will always be sunshine, even if it is hiding behind a few clouds.

My friend, God my you for a reason, you may not know the reason why right now, but that's ok, cause He isn't finished with you yet!!!!

I don't know who you are or what your life is like, but take what I have to say to heart.

There may be black storm clouds & thunder right now, but remember after every storm, there is always a Rainbow, & Sunshine to clean up the muddy mess.

Don't worry about not being accepted by certain people or certain groups, if they can't accept you as you, then it is their loss not yours.

Now lets deal with anywhere!!!!

If your being rejected by a certain group of friends or so called friends, look elsewhere!!!

There is always someone looking to be a friend, & looking for a friend.

Just take a walk in the park & look around & see if there is some one who needs a friend. Alot of people go to parks for different reasons, some go, to get peace, some go hoping to find someone to talk to, so go to just have the feeling of people around them. No matter what the reason everyone is there because they too are looking for answers to lifes riddles & questions.

Once your at the park, just find someone who looks like they might needs some company, & ask if that seat is taken, if they answer you looking for conversation start talking about the nice weather. If they don't just sit there & make a comment about the weather, some may start talking, & this could be your key to getting some wanted & needed friends.

Everyone wants to be needed, just by you being you, could be the rainbow they have been looking for.

I don't have all the answers, but your life has already started to get better.

I accept you for you!!! & I am not just anyone, My name is Karl & I am your new Friend from somewhere called: St. Catharines, Ontario Canada. I will do his best to be there for you.

If you would like to talk more my email is enclosed at the bottom.

My new found friend it is nice to finally get rid of all that sadness, you're accepted by me no matter the past!!!!

Have A Happy!!!!

Your Friend

Karl Gough

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Answer 2

Don't be sad sweety...why are you sad? You know even as an adult I don't feel accepted by a lot of people but I don't care. You have to be true to yourself.

You need to look hard in the mirror and tell yourself I love you. You are a terrific human being and these people are too dumb to see it.

One day, I'll find some good people who are deserving of someone wonderful like me and THEN I will reveal myself and share who I am. Until then...forget about thinking that you are different. Maybe being different is better than being like everyone else anyhow.

We are each UNIQUE and SPECIAL...sometimes we only think that people don't accept us because we have such a poor self image of ourself. Do something to make yourself feel better. Buy some new clothes, get a haircut, if you're a girl try some new makeup. Build up your confidence talking to people in here. You will find you are not alone.

You should talk to someone older that you can trust and tell them how you feel. Maybe they have some advice that can help you. I don't know what more to say but don't be sad. You will find your way I promise!

Answer 3

Oh sweetie...
Been there done that so may times in my 36 years on this earth!
I have lost almost every family member and person I love.
Not to separation, they are no longer on this earth.
So I know the desperation you feel.
I always falter, but I always pick myself up, dust myself off, and look for the new day ahead!
The one thing I have learned is to appreciate this life.
Do not look at the negative things. Think and enjoy all the wonderful things that are in our lives!
If you do not like where you are, change it!
If you do not like your job, get a different one!
We control our lives, noone else :-)
Be strong enough to live it the way you want, not the way others want :-)
You can make your time here the most fascinating experience...
You just have to want it enough!
Say what you want, do what you want!
Grab it by the horns baby!

Answer 4

You sound depressed, in which case you need medication. Seek medical attention, this can get lots worse. Don't worry about who accepts you, that is THEIR problem. Love yourself first and foremost.

Answer 5

You may have depression or social anxiety disorder. /: My dad has depression and is always down... You should talk to your doctor about it. I know I sound lame talking about visiting a doctor, but they may be able to help. :) I hope you feel better. Keep on keepin' on! -hugs-

Answer 6

if you are really sad. their is something going on in your home or something happen to you. i would call teen hot line and talk to someone they can help. or talk to someone in your family that will lesson to you. sound like you need to to talk to someone. or go to a church and talk to someone their. i hope this helps.

Answer 7

go to a movie, go to the park do something that gets your mind off the loneliness

Answer 8

if that's how your feeling you need to talk to a friend of family member soon you need help from somebody

Answer 9

how old are you? could be a stage if your a teen. otherwise see a doctor could be a thyroid problem or just plain old deppression.

Answer 10

got to church, for real do it