I know this sounds terrible, but I had sex with my male cousin.
He didn't seem to care about it, but I am so worried that I just ruined our friendship like this. We have been raised together for 26 years, because both our fathers are close cousins. If he starts to hate me after this, what can I do to repair this mess I made?
2006-08-12 16:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by SCDJr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
keep away from him
2006-08-12 16:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that he should hate you, you guys grew up together and were close. If he did not seem to care that you guys had sex then it should not have been a big deal right? I think that both of you should be mature enough to continue being good cousins. I do not think that it was a mess, it just happened... unless you guys were drunk... then that is something else, but for the most part i think that you just should continue to act like normal. unless he starts to act different, then you need to talk to him about it. good luck :]
2006-08-12 23:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by blinkdan04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he let you do this to him, that means he enjoyed it too.
But you shouldn't do that no more, because it can cause
problems, not only for or him, but you fathers as well.
Keep in mind, sex is a treasured moment, not a game. There
are consequences for having "forbidden sex". But from what I read, you two were probably curious, and it got the better of you to. Go to him and ask how he feels.
If it is negative response, then he didn't like it. But if it is a positive response, then it didn't bother him. However, DO NOT MAKE IT A HABIT, JUST FOR THE HELL OF IT.
2006-08-13 00:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do, you have crossed a line that should nevvvvvvvvvvver be crossed. At this time I would act like nothing happened since that is what he is doing. If it comes up,like him bringing it up I would say it was a horrible mistake,apologize and ask him if you can go back to how it was before you made that mistake. Take it from there
2006-08-12 23:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he hate you when he lost nothing in having sex with you. Just dont do it again, and since he doest seem to care, just live live as normal and forget about the whole issue, put it behind.
2006-08-12 23:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..sweety.If he seems not to mind so much..then you probably have nothin to worrie about...but he starts actin weird around you then maybe you should ask him did you guys havin relations messed up your relatioship..If he is then you should tell him he was willin to do it so he shouldnt hold nothin against you...k hope i helped...
2006-08-12 23:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please collect yourself first of all. Then have a nice serious talk and move on. Do not panick! and try to be discreet in everything you do. Your family should not be dragged into your bed!
2006-08-12 23:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by don't know much at all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live in the hills of Tennessee?
2006-08-12 23:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Linda Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋