i love him and he says he loves me been together for 9 months already do oyou think its love or lust
2006-08-12 16:33:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lust.
He is married.
2006-08-12 16:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you are already married and he is married. Why would you hurt 2 other human beings let alone bring a child into this world that would probley never know his real father.
How could you be with someone for 9 months if he is married and you are married....Sorry but this is just wrong....Do the right thing and get a divorce and move on with your life.
2006-08-12 16:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by faith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sure that you love him, and you're sure that it's his kid, then you both need to get a divorce and get married so the child will have the correct father.
If you're religious, then it is the right thing to do if you divorce your current husband and marry the other man. If you don't divorce your current husband, then the child will be a full fledged bastard.
I guess you're wondering how the child can be a bastard if you don't marry the other man.
Well, the answer is a translation error in the bible.
They mis-translated the hebrew word "Mamzer".
Look up Mamzer on the internet.
2006-08-12 16:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Harry Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to tell. You are in a relationship surrounded by infidelities. If you really know him, and you love him, this baby could be great for you. What you choose to do is really up to you. Don't fret about it too much though, life has a way of unwinding and giving you happiness. If he's starting to say he doesn't have time for you after you've told him you're pregnant, he's a jerk and I wouldn't worry. Definitely make sure its his when the baby arrives. Most likely it'll be something that you need to work out more with your husband if you wish to keep him around.
2006-08-12 16:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by gnomef0cker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to come clean with your husband!
How dare you cheat on him and do the ultimate worst...
You are going to have another man's baby?
What is that?
And the only thing that you are worried about is the time you do not have with this other married man...
What is going to happen when the baby is born?
What if he looks nothing like your actual husband and he finds out the hard way?
Fess up baby!
Before a bad situation gets to be an eruptive one.
You were adult enough to make these decisions, you should be adult enough to face the consequences.
2006-08-12 16:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling, then get a really good job with benefits, then get good child care, and live as good a life as possible cause honey, that man is never going to give you anything.
I suggest at least trying for child support so he won't get completely away with using you, and you won't wind up resenting the child and feeling as if it's a chore instead of a child.
2006-08-12 17:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is f***ed up. How stupid can you be, You do not get pregnant to a married man, they never leave there wives. You need help. Ask your man if he wants the kid otherwise leave his sorry a**.,I think it's lust and you need to ask for child support.
2006-08-12 16:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband?????? If you do, you need to cut yourself off from this other man, I think I answered your other question too. If you want your husband to forgive you you need to make the right choices, no more living in a dream world!!! The married man is mot going to leave his wife for you. You have to make some hard choices here, and it wont be easy!!!!!! But who says life is!!!!!!
2006-08-13 07:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by hairstyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you asking if the married man loves you no it lust the love goes to his wife or she wouldn't be his wife and if he uses the excuse of money or kids I guess you kid loses and you have a lower dollar sigh on your head and If you talking about your husband if you love him keep your pants on if not let him go find someone to love him back and the sad part is if your pg you just scewd your child because you are selfish
2006-08-12 16:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust. But you can just try to kid yourself all you want as you are quite obviously gullible enough to believe anything.
Why would you even want a man that cheats on his wife? So you can "have" him - so he cheats on you, too? Wow, there's a deal.
Too bad there is a little one on the way as a permanent reminder of this thoughtless frolic.
2006-08-12 16:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the news and advise him of parental responsibilities and child support. Then you will find out how much he loves you!!! Wake up, the nightmare has just began as now you need to tell your husband about the child!! You need counseling for sure!! Best wishes!!
2006-08-12 16:39:50 · answer #11 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋