my husband brought home condoms from a strippers bag what should i think of that?

Question

my husband used to work at a stripper club as security until he finally stopped after i asked him about 3 or 4 times,....but anywayz we already have two kids and decided really thats all we want. so we buy condoms from time to time on the side of me taking pills to be extra cautious...anyway he brought home some condoms saying he took some out of a strippers bag.....what the hell am i supposed to think about that and he says it like its all good....tell me if im over reacting please cause the **** had me pissed

Answer 1

if he no longer works there Hint Hint.

Answer 2

The strip club industry has a world of it's own. What seems of the completely absurd nature, is a natural thing in those places. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about it much. I was a bartender in a strip club for over ten years. I've seen it and heard it all. Your man, obviously has some of that mentality still left in him. It's why he thinks it's no big deal....truth be told, it's probably nothing you need to worry about, as far as the condoms go.

Answer 3

You see, men and women do not speak the same language of love all the time.
He's probably done this because it's a way of showing you he cares about you, even if it just doesn't make sense to you (or me). Probably he's thought, I've got some condoms - she likes that, and I haven't paid for them - I've saved money, she likes that too: Great! I've got a good score! Only it hasn't quite come across that way.
Our actions are designed to communicate things to other people. But we don't always understand what is meant to be communicated by certain actions.
When we women shave everything, put on silk and perfume and arrange ourselves nicely, then our men understand we're communicating something about sex. That part, they do understand.
But men aren't always so simple.

Answer 4

It's ok but tell them in the future you would rather pay for them because someone might play a joke on her or something worse. safety first. At least he was honest. :-)
PS condoms before or after he quit the job. Maybe condoms are to protect him?

Answer 5

okay maybe you are over reacting a bit,and he did quit his job for you right, but on the other hand what is he doing in a strippers bag, and well I really think that you should just think about that for one minuet, is it really worth getting a headache...

Answer 6

He quit his job, and if the condoms haven't been used, Don't worry about it, sounds like you already have the poor guy wipped down pretty good...........

Answer 7

He wants to use them with you.