It is said that everyone leaves someone off their list. So if you say 4 guys, it actually 5 or 6.
Do you think your significant other needs to know the exact number?
2006-08-12 16:21:01 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The past is in the past so leave it there.
2006-08-16 12:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by tish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of delicacy and tact, I wouldn't ask, and he certainly hasn't asked me. I don't want to know about his past; it's enough for me to know, that he's a great lover and now he wants me exclusively. That is all I need to know, and I'm sure he doesn't want to know how many men I've been with. It's a yuk thought once you've met the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with, and it just doesn't matter as long as you've both had a sexual health check.
2006-08-13 03:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to tell him, nor do you need to ask him. The past is the past and bringing up something like a number will cause problems. All you need to know is if he is free from disease.
2006-08-13 00:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the exact number. Because if you're asked again you might tell he/she a different number...
2006-08-13 00:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's history and no one else needs to know. It's no longer honesty by telling them, it's downright stupidity. If everything is OK in the relationship, leave it be.
2006-08-12 23:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Don S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why? So they can throw it up when they're mad? Or be jealous all the time? No. I don't think you should be completely honest unless your number is VERY low!
2006-08-12 23:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be if he wanted to know. But as pf yet (four years of marriage) he has never asked that question.
2006-08-12 23:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby knows the truth but I do not tell everyone
2006-08-12 23:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best way but it really dont matter ( in most cases) cuz it possibly wuz before ya'll time
2006-08-12 23:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by luckymc100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he tends to be more specific than i am but i always answer honestly yet keep it simple
2006-08-12 23:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by chocolatesandbreakfast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋