We used to have fun and do thing together and sex was very frequent. Now it's really far and few between. We argue a lot and everything is my fault accroding to her.
2006-08-12 15:54:58 · 22 answers · asked by driveitinyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hold your horses! woaaah! you are thinking so far ahead you are already mentally exhausted before you even done your homework on this :)
First things first! think about the following questions first before you draw conclusions! and i think you owe your g/f this much if you love her k? it will help you be at peace i promise.
- Sex isn't everything, If anything she might want to be re-inforced by the thought that you love her for her heart and not because you want to simply have her body. If you are suddenly feel slightly guilty? talk to her calmly and apologize .. yes apologize you can't treat a woman as a sexual object.
- Are you incredibly posessive of her like you are practically smothering her with constant phone calls ... constantly watching over her and looking over her shoulder 'n trying to keep her to yourself from dawn to dusk? you are making her feel as if she is your personal posession. A woman is not something you can own or keep completely to yourself just because you want her
- What are you two arguing over? i know your answer! trivial stuff! well alright break it down one by one don't ever interrupt her not once not ever! let her tell you her side and take a deep breath..count to three(mentally) and reply in a calm and slow manner. There are different types of 'trivial' issues which endup 'serious' when you listen carefully.
- Where's your proof she's cheating on you dude? honestly! did you see it happen? do you have concrete irrefutable(sp?) evidence? alright if that's the case and she was taken by someone else? why are you beating yourself up over it? you sound like a decent man! lots of fish out in the sea and don't eve change for anyone honestly
2006-08-12 16:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by tantalus1076 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is a loaded question. I think when we are used to someone we get too comforable and often take them for granted. We take out our emotions on them only to feel bad later thinking that things will still go on as usual. Or....she could be depressed. Sometimes some men (sorry guys) don't want to talk about feelings and other things or just do not know how. Research says that women and men deal differently with problems. Women like to talk it out and discuss. You need to do this: Make her a nice dinner and tell her this is a date night for only talking. Cuddle but Do not even think about having sex. This is to get the issues out. Once things are good to go then I'd be a betting person your sex life will improve.
2006-08-12 16:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on! As you spend longer times together Sex is going to become less frequent, ask any married couple that and theyll tell you that is true! Fighting can only get worse if you move in together, so my advise it that you are probably still young, youre not married you have no kids with this woman, depart from her and be young, and do what young people do now a days! Life is to short to take bf gf stuff so seriously!
2006-08-12 15:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by keylee l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that......Women get to that point where they are past that so-called honeymoon stage. According to the age she might be thinking of what direction she wants her life to be going[and whether or not your included] or yes she could be cheating and wants you to be the one to give up so she does'nt seem to be the bad guy..You just need to kick back and evaluate your situation, try talking and see what she says.....if she trys to argue when all your trying to do is just communicate I would just trade her in for a newer model.....Cause obviously she's broke down somewhere....
2006-08-12 16:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if "we" think she is cheating on you? I don't know, nor does anyone else on here. But, she certainly could be. Or, it could just be the relationship has hit a dull moment which certainly can and does happen to couples, similar to in marriages when "the honeymoon" period ends...Ask her about it though, take her out to dinner and in conversation ask where she thinks the relationship is headed? Do you ever see us being married or having a future together? Her answers to these questions will help provide you with an answer without coming out and asking "are you cheating on me?" which ofcourse she probably won't answer truthfully anyways and will just add to any rift in the relationship
2006-08-12 16:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by dshcpa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Will What does it mean 2.5 years?Maybe she might think the other way around.You might be cheating on her.AM almost in that boat but Cinda different.Me I have a problem with my weight.Am not that big but big enough.She my think she is not that cute to you any more.It might be,All you have to do is ask her.
2006-08-12 16:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called advancing, thats what happens in a relationship. There are many ways to rebuild what you once had. Do you have anyother reasons to believe she is cheating on you? And if she were. would you leave her? Send me an email if you would like more advice, I am quite knowledgeable in this field.
2006-08-12 15:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tweendasheetz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU have to flip on her act like a dick towards her and she'll sweat u trust that **** always works ask ur guy friends, by the way it dosnt means shes cheating but it could mean that she is losing interest
2006-08-12 16:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well love this does not mean she is cheating she may just be going through something, have you tried talking to her. also try to avoid the arguments. As soon as she gets upset just divert the conversation.
2006-08-12 15:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by tawwy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's getting bored. The only way you can find out where this relationship is going is by asking her what her feelings are and why you guys haven't been doing so good.
2006-08-12 15:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋