My Boyfriend will not stop telling me lies. How do I get him to tell me the truth? How can I be sure what he says is true?
2006-08-12 15:52:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you know when he's lying, you should already know when he's telling you the truth.
I told my wife when I married her years ago, "I'm not going to tell you more than one lie per day. However, It's entirely up to you to determine which one is a lie, so don't ask me to help."
Lets be real ladies, if I told her the truth about every little thing she asked me about, when we first married over thrity five years ago, she'd never cook a meal. Because truthfully, she wasn't even close to being called a cook, let alone a good one. She is now though. Worry about the big things in life when they happen. If you use up all your energy worrying about the little things, you'll be exhausted when something serious comes up. That seems to be why all the courts are full of people wanting a divorce. Good Luck.
2006-08-12 16:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by rookiewriter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make him tell you the truth. He will only do that if he wants to do so. If he does not respect you enough to tell you the truth then he is not worthy of you. You deserve better. So if he insists on telling you untruths and you cannot trust him, you should let him go and find someone who will be truthful with you. Those men do still exist. Just have faith and remember that you do deserve better than that.
2006-08-12 22:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by southerngrace1030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump that sorry excuse of a boyfriend! How would you be able to trust him in the future? If you want someone to tell you the truth, give them the "evil eye". Works every time for me! >:)
2006-08-12 22:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Autumn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is for you to know the truth and call him on it. You must know what that truth is because you don't want to accuse him falsely.
For you to just suspect is not enough. Get a friend of his to help you. or a friend of both of you is even better.
2006-08-12 23:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry,but if I went with someone and he lied all the time,I would end the relationship.They wind up eventually cheating on you,play head games on you and make you upset and mentally sick.No man is worth it.You have to forget him even tho it hurts and know there are better fellows out there that are honest and truthful.This guys a loser.
2006-08-12 23:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's lying all the time then you need to get rid of him. However if you want to get him to start telling the truth. Manipulation. Or torture.
2006-08-12 22:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already said he wont stop tell you lies. He doesn't see want to change.. so drop him. Move on before he breaks your heart further.
2006-08-12 22:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend would be history,find someone who really cares about you.Too many god guys out there for you to put up with him.A liar is also a cheater.
2006-08-12 22:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a truth potion.
2006-08-12 22:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see that's my problem..i ask questions...get the answers and then mull it over in my head forever and a day. so no sometimes it's better to not tell all
2006-08-12 23:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by chocolatesandbreakfast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋