divorce not an option, have two kids. Me....straight forward, just the facts type. Likes to yell to communicate like my family who are hispanic and its just normal. Him, likes to please everyone and doesnt like it if you are upset and yell. His family is very quiet.
2006-08-12 15:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by circusdejojo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How did you two get a marriage with 2 kids if you have nothing in common in the first place?
The best way to fix any relationship is respect and understanding. It could be through the course of been married, kids, pressure etc, both ofyou have lost the main thing that got you two married. If he is the quiet type, learn to respect that. There are alot of ways to get things done other than yelling. No one likes to come back to a home that is screaming and yelling. He has his pressure at work, when he comes home he would look forward to the peace and warm his family provides. Since you are the one asking the question, you should start looking at yourself and make some changes. When he is back. greet him with a smile and ask "how's work" and offer him a cup of drink.
Do it for 2 weeks and you will see a difference.
2006-08-12 16:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
..I am Hispanic and I don't jell when I try to communicate with my boyfriend/husband, but anyway.....If you don't love him (for what it sounds) you shouldn't stay married, I don't know how old are you, but you can still have time to find someone which you can have something in common, that loves you back and you love him, and be happy!! Don't waste your time with a relationship just for your kids, they will get older and then go to college and get married and then for you it is gonna be late, we don't get younger every day, so I would advice you to seek the help of a counselor to try to awake the love that I am sure you first had for your husband when you got married and that is just asleep (may be?), LIFE IS TOOO SHORT , try to be happy!!
2006-08-12 16:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. It will help you to understand your differences and yet still have a great marriage.
2006-08-12 15:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find the answer, maybe you will share the info with a man in the same boat.
2006-08-12 16:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you both seek out a counselor. Thank you.
2006-08-12 15:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you married in the first place???
2006-08-12 16:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by flo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to adjust to his ways. Don't think that you're bending to his will, you just have to compromise..
2006-08-12 15:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please let me know if you get some good answers dealing with the same problem.
2006-08-12 16:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by charro0295340 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋