i was just told one of my friends died she was only 15. someone plz plz tell me why they have to be so young when they still have so much to look forward to. and im sure yall r thinkin she died in a car accident and that was not how it was that she rejected the final heart they gave her. she had had at least 8 different ones. why did she have to die now and she was a christan to.
2006-08-12 15:45:42 · 14 answers · asked by hipper 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well as a christian you should be looking at death from a different angle. She actually live longer than she expected. She had as you say 8 hearts. That kept her alive longer then if she would have had no hearts. She endured months and years of pain and her heroic challenge to live shows great strength in her mind and body.
Maybe instead you being sad or even mad she is dead. Rejoice that she is free of pain and that you were able to be with her for her short time on this earth. Death is a way of life, and some of us are the unlucky ones as we are still alive. (tongue in cheek) As we have to keep living our day by day existence. As a Christian you know she will always be with you in spirit.
Now you need to honor her by being the kind of person that will live on and remember her. She was a strong survivor and she was lucky to have a friend like you.
I know it hurts to have her gone from your presence. But if you live a good life and succeed in your trials and tribulations, you will be a testament to her struggles and strenght in her life.
God Bless you and keep you well.
2006-08-12 16:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok being a christian has no bearing on life lenth at all and does not make one person better than another.
She died so young because her body couldnt take the pain and misery that she was going through and decided it was best to shut down. She lost her will to live after so many hearts and her body believed it was time to shut down
2006-08-12 16:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
under no circumstances. Why could i want to die youthful? and also you won't be able to bodily 'stay quickly' & I that'd could boost up my lack of existence (if i replaced into to die at the same time as i'm older) which I doubt anybody needs:p and also you won't be able to plot on leaving a desirable corpse -- the morgue (sorry if that is spelt incorrect) can make you look nice yet except for that, no man or woman is prevalent with what our corpse is going to seem as if.
2016-11-24 22:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how old or young you are when God's ready for you, he's ready. Last year on April fools day, God took my only grandparent from me, and then 6 months later, my aunt killed herself, and then 6 months later (april this year) my aunt died and then 2 days after that my cousin was shot and killed. I'm only 15, but have learned so much from God through all theses deaths. I've learned to appreciate the life he gives us and never take anything for granted. You'll tregret it if you do. Just pray to God, I will pray to him for you. You sound like you need it.
2006-08-12 16:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. The truth is that we all die, no matter what. It's gonna happen to you and me too. We all just have different "expiration dates." But don't worry, your friend will live on in your memories of her (I know it sounds corny but it's what my parents told me when my dog died and it was true).
2006-08-12 16:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. I knew someone that died a few days after her 14th birthday. She had a seizure and the doctors put her in a coma for a month. There was no activity and they took her out of it and she died. So sad.
2006-08-12 15:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your friend, but what does her being a Christian have to do with anything? Christians should get special treatment and not have to die, and others should? Christians are no different than anyone else.
2006-08-12 16:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres an old sang i go by when i remember the late people i truely miss: there are as many short graves as there is long graves. meaning when your time is up on earth u will be called home. and if you have done your job on earth you will be rewarded in heaven. and never question god's work because he knows what he is doing.
2006-08-12 15:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss....i know that this is very hard for you to understand.....i have lost quite a few of friends in their teens and it is hard to deal with at the time that it happens but time will heal your pain.....i hate hearing about someone one dying so young......just remember the good times that you had with her and smile....the other thing that you need to say to yourself is that at least she will no longer have to suffer. she feels no pain....i hope that you have the support you need to get through this...again i am sorry for your loss.
2006-08-12 16:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by beautiful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww honey I'm sorry for your loss! She fulfilled her purpose on Earth and now God called her home. It may not be anything anybody else knew she did but God knows what she fulfilled!!!
2006-08-12 17:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋