Hi.
I gather alot of people didn't get the info yeaterday. I did everything in my power.i took my son to my doctor first he confirmed a recent tear and an old tear.he wrote a diagram of my sons tears, recommened i take pictures ,which i did.then took my son to oak lawn emergency room where all they did was take his vital signs, never checked his rectum,I asked aren't you going to check my son rectum , Dr.answered he's been thru enuogh trama. Dr. then said my son was going to be admitted. while waiting for 5-6 hrs ,Dr. came back and said my son wasn't going to be admitted because insurance didn't cover, went back tha next day for blood test and culture test.son went to see speialist detectives and Dcfs were behind mirror my son couldn'y see them.my son was having nightmares that abuser was sticking a speaker in his butt my son had not yet said the truth, so they based it on a dream, Dcfs said a dream does not tear a rectum and walked out, and the hospital statment weakend the case
2006-08-12 15:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Mary T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That sucks, i hope whoever did it pays!
2006-08-12 15:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As myself being sexually abused as a child this can be very devastating. He he will probably end up with what I have. Post traumatic stress disorder. The nightmares are normal and will happen for a while. Just hang in there and comfort your son as much as possable. Try to get him to open up to the detectives and DCFS. It may be very hard for him to do this at first. The flash backs are horrible. It may take some time to release the trauma. It took me 5 years to say what had happen to me. Keep your faith!
Hope things work out for you.
2006-08-12 15:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by kittengoesgrrr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WTF!!!.....Where is this Bastard that did this?? You know..you can never depend on the hospital or police!! I always wondered what the hell they really do?? Not Work!!! I am sooo Sorry to hear this, I don't know what I would do if that happen to my son. I see why people take matters into their own hands. I know I Damn Sure!! would, especially after getting the Run Around!! Honestly people really DON"T CARE even when it comes to kids. Such a sad story....Truthfully the husband (he was suppose to be watching him) and the molester would Definitely Pay 4 This!!!
2006-08-12 15:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you go to the emergency room? Everything else was right except that. Besides giving your son additional trama, your subjecting everyone to idiot science. Oh well, have you pressed charges on the perpetrator yet? If not, expose him at his work and in your town because those kinds of people are a bain to everybody.
2006-08-12 15:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that it is traumatic for your whole family, but my advice is not to make a big fuss about it in front of your son. "It just makes his anxiety worst. Be patience and talk to him and don't keep pushing him to retell the story. He is already ashame and embarrass. I hope the guy pay for his crime. Help your child keep his mind off of it. The more stressed you are, the worst he will feel.
2006-08-12 15:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would push the issue to have whom ever done that to your baby locked up. DON'T GIVE UP. And never let your son sleep over at anyones house. Have them come over and sleep at your house this way you know what is going on with your son. I am sorry to hear that. Good luck.
2006-08-12 15:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you call child protection services and the police, at less have the police speak to the person that did that and to see if he has done that before. Sorry to about your son he will need counseling have the state pay for it.
2006-08-12 15:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doctors are absolutely pathetic! They could care less when something serious happens, they just don't care! I hope the police are involved and the person who did this is put in prison. I hope your son is ok.
2006-08-12 15:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by sobefobik 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Damn, I would,,,,,, that is f@#&ed up. I know what I would do, but the law would come after me,, ummmm just contact the police again and they should do something
2006-08-12 15:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by ninob_68 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is so wrong y would sum1 want to harm a child in any
way! well dis aint really a question but i feel u on dis one i hope he finally comes out wit it and tells the truth so SUM1
will get wut they deserve!
2006-08-12 15:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tweetybaby♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋