Ok I have dis prob... I am boy crazy and people at my old school called me a stupid whore because i went out w/ 4 guyz in 1 year... right now im in a new school and im scared that if i go out w/ some 1 people might think i'm something that i'm not i really want to concentrate on my work instead of guyz wut should i do???????
2006-08-12 15:14:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Concentrate on your work. It's that easy. Use your willpower.
2006-08-12 15:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then it's simple don't go out with guys if you don't want the bad reputation then don't give people the assumption that you are with them, high schoolers can be dumb bitter and jealous and will often make up false roomers. only you are in control of you life and how you live it so if you want to go out with a guy then do so it's your right don't let anyone discourage you from doing so, and don't care what others think about you because in the end it won't matter,
so focus on you schooling, but don't deprive yourself of going out on a date with a guy just because some people will disagree with it. the person that probably said you were a whore was jealous because they couldn't get a boy to like them if they tried all day.
2006-08-12 15:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? This sounds like an adolscent problem Second, don't whore yourself around, thats the best way to avoid a bad reputation. And don't be so worried about what people think, if you are comfortable with yourself then what others say wont matter.
2006-08-12 15:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- Trite but true: Don't worry about what people think of you. Unless they're verbally or physically abusive, ignore them.
2- If you really want to concentrate on your (school?)work, then just do it. By the way, most men are idiots (except for me). So they're not worth bad grades and lack of learning. And again, trite but true, they'll want what they can't have. You ignore them, and they'll all come begging.
2006-08-12 15:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i moved schools i went out with one on my second week. no one called me whore or slut. the people at your school mustv been jerks. to avoid this i suggest that you stick to being social but don't flirt until your sure that you really like the person and that they know you. if you go out with someone and they don't know you then it would be a little wierd. also the people at your new school don't know you so they would be nicer since they didn't know you since kindergarten.:) they don't call me slut or whore at My new school. just don't worry about it. the other people just might have been jealous.
2006-08-12 15:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by shan_tora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do just that concentrate on school. Leave the boys alone. There will be plenty of time for them later in life. Good luck.
2006-08-12 15:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that you have a problem staying with boys maybe you sould get to know boys really well before you go out with them because you don't want a relationship that is for just a week and don't worry about what people think obviously boys think you are great so maybe the people who talk about you are jealous
2006-08-12 15:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your education!!! The most a guy at your school can give u is a baby in your tummy. Get ur education first, so if you do decide to have a baby, at least u will be able to afford it.
2006-08-12 15:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by y_welton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby u can go with anyone u want and how many u want. jus try not to be a whore and tell them to mind their own bussines. If they say things say its not ur flaut u sexy and everyone wanna go wit u!!! but remember u have to be at a school more than 2 months to date people and try to find out more about the person b4 u go out with them u might jus go with the wrong person. them no one will want to go with u coz u went wit a lame charectar.
2006-08-12 15:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Cute butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can have a guy as a friend, u know ... and its better that way at least in your situation ....u don't have to date EVERY guy ... and yur only a whore if you sleep around ... Concentraing on yr work instead will help yr future ...guys will always be around even when yr 40!!
2006-08-12 15:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by localblue10866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.
First off, Dont worry about what others think. You should do what makes you happy.
Second... Maybe you can find a guy who gets your situation and can help you keep up with your work and still have fun.
Maybe you were with the 4 guys because they werent ment for you.
Lastly your in school lol.....its like this ...relax and have fun with it!
2006-08-12 15:21:24 · answer #11 · answered by sniperwolfjulian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋