guys like this are all around I have to admit that even though I'm a guy myself.and it really is a disappointment to see that guys are becoming more and more like that,whatever happened to the term "gentlemen"?and I'm really sorry for you that most of the guys you meet are like that coz my gf has the same sentiments as you.
and I wont blame you for thinking guys are liars and only thinks of sex,but I have to tell you that not all guys are like that.its hard to find a good decent guy but I tell you they exist,although becoming extinct.if you ever meet guys like that,just ignore them,pretend that they are pests or something coz seriously I cant stand men acting that way too,really brings down the name of the innocent good men out there
2006-08-12 15:16:05
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answered by sylvestercheese 3
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To answer this question I would have to see your boobs. lol
I don't think that thinking of sex all the time and being a liar are mutually inclusive. You have apparently been burnt a few times, although once is enough.
It is a shame, but true, that there are not a lot of truthworthy boy scouts out there. On the other hand, I don't see any modern day assembly line turning out dependable women. We are getting lots of media bimbos, male and female.
You might try presenting yourself with a little less emphasis on the physical. Rights or no rights, if you put it on display, and its worth looking at, then somebody is going to look. And who is going to look? I say the hungry, the younger, the less experienced, the meat market gang, etc.
To catch fish by type you have to select your location and your bait. If you are in the right spot you get what you bait the hook for. Don't let the media sluts (men or women) set your dress or agenda.
I don't thing it is all guys or girls. I do think that there are fewer choice people in circulation in many pockets of the world today.
Hate to be a bigot, but even in evolution discrimination is the name of the game. Try and find yourself a better circle of friends (different lake to fish in) and take a look at what you bait your hook for?
Right now I would give about anything to find a woman with some real cleavage between her ears. This is hard for me because I always go out with women 20 or 30 years my junior. Don't have any choice, all the women my age are in nursing homes or supporting a sick husband.
Remember, your wants and priorities will change and may be changing right now.
Your question and statement tells me you are not a dummy - so don't give up the ship just yet. Just think how long the Marines have been looking for a few good men!
I can't really help you on the right kind of bait or what depth to fish at because I don't know you or your situation. I picture you on a good day as being kinda warm with a ready smile. In which case I would dress more conservative, stand real straight, and look over your situation with a cool eye (hold the smiles). I don't know if this will work; but you might get a sophisticated jerk instead of one who drools.
All this, and I am not even a lady! Well, did you want opinions or just sympathy? Good luck.
2006-08-12 16:43:42
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answered by Tommy 6
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There are some really good books that talk about how differently men and women think and it is important for both genders to read these and try their best to understand each other. Men generally do think a lot more often than sex than women, but that does not excuse a guy for not treating a woman like a lady. On the other hand, women are a lot more concerned about how well the relationship is going instead of primarily sex.
Don't know where you are getting that guys lie more than women though. What research does that come from?
2006-08-12 15:16:43
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answered by Vladdy 2
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Well honesty definitely is put to the test for both sexes who want the person of the opposite sex and think that they are inadequate.
When you have kids learning morals from movies like"how to be a player" and Maxim magazine "how to pick up women", then the honesty factor gets thrown to the four winds. However you must accomplish it, its about accomplishing the mission at hand.
You will find that a stable man who is a bit older desires less game playing than these younger bucks.If you don't want men staring at your breasts then wear something that doesn't accentuate them.If you don't want them ogling your body then wear a nice dress.If this strikes you as offensive then I suggest that your problem lies with the way you carry yourself.The vibes that you give off will reciprocally attract men on that same wavelength. If you want a man that will respect you then you must first carry yourself and have an appearance that demands respect.
2006-08-12 15:18:10
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answered by isaac a 3
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There are a lot of guys out there that are only sexual minded, but then there are guys out there that are in it for the real you. If you find that all they are doing is talking with your boobs only, take a moment to see what kind of image of yourself that you are portraying first. You might not intend it to be that way but sometimes we ask for what we are getting. Then again, we also must look at the kind of guy you are associating with, and might need to make a change there.
2006-08-12 15:14:10
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answered by Stevie 2
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The vast majority of guys are like that but there are a few that are not like that at all. It jsut takes time fo tind them. Keep looking and in the mean time, dont ever settle for elss than what you knwo you deserve in life. That is the worst mistake a person can make. Good luck.
2006-08-12 20:57:01
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm at my bf's and would't sleep and have not have been given something greater proper to do, so i will answer your question. i think of each and every physique in some unspecified time contained sooner or later has been cheated on. whilst i replaced into 17 my bf cheated on me with my bestfriend at my very own occasion. i found out with the aid of a mutual buddy 2 months after the certainty, dumped him asap and.... i be conscious of this sounds immature, I went to her front door and knocked her out. Her boyfriend befell to be there. He got here out and asked me what's happening, and that i basically informed him what I knew ... solid situations. there is greater proper to return alongside, I promise. yet dropping a bestfriend and the guy I enjoyed replaced into the WORST. What i'm attempting to declare is adult men cheat too and you greater proper belive it. there is in hassle-free terms a multitude of those that have not have been given any discipline and basically love the exhilaration of doing something sneaky in spite of who it hurts. there is no longer lots else to it. too lots information in all probability, yet there you circulate.
2016-09-29 05:12:41
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answered by hobin 4
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Your right and the best thing you can do is think about you and what you want out of life and make sure a man doesn't mess you up. They will try to. If you are young go to school and finish college and have your own life. You will be much happier. Men stink they are only good for one thing.
2006-08-12 15:11:03
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answered by Eerin 6
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No, in defense of guys we are not all liars. As far as the sexual part, that is a by product of testosterone. That comes with the product. But you should find guys that are looking for more than sex.
2006-08-12 15:10:34
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answered by The Disappearing Act 2
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Oh?....and "YOU'RE" also sure there's never been women liars, golddiggers, cheaters, users and the like,....are you?
I suppose, (being a woman) you would'nt be just a little bit one-sided and prejudist...would you?
Is it really the men that are to blame?....or "YOUR" bad choices?
Are you wrong "you" ask.?...I believe the answer to THAT is, that you see everybody else's faults yet you fail to see yourself and ask why you repeatedly pick THESE TYPES?
One definition of insanity is,...doing the same thing over, and over, expecting to get different results every time.
Perhaps it's time "YOU" learned how to judge "CHARACTER" and make BETTER CHOICES!
2006-08-12 16:00:28
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answered by Anonymous
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