my friend's Dad is always flirting with me. he always wants me to sit on his lap. should I avoid them both

Answer 1

I would avoid coming anywhere near your friends dad. Tell your friend what their dad is doing to you. If you're uncomfortable, then tell them both. If you feel your friend has done nothing about it, then leave them both. Things like this are wrong, it takes time to get them to leave you alone. If he countinues when you're away forom them, then it's sexual harrassment. I hope this helped you and best wishes.

Answer 2

Avoid the Father. Depends on how old you are. If you are over 10 years, old, do not sit on this old fools lap. The friend should tell her Father to behave. Some men love to flirt with young girls. Might not mean anything , but if it is to intense, tell your friend that you don't like it . Ask your Mother what she thinks. Anytime you need someone to talk to , go to your Mother. She will tell you what to do. If not, then use your own common sense . You should know what is right and what is not. Be strong and don't let anyone take advantage of you.

Answer 3

Avoid the Dad

Answer 4

I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 18 as well. Last year we were at one of her friends houses and her friend's dad was really flirting with her, like really obviously. I told her friend that her dad was gross and repulsive, she got mad, and went to tell her dad. When he came in the room he asked me to step out into the hallway. He then began to tell me that he was 49 years old and had earned the right to flirt with, any girl that he wanted to. I said okay, and told him the next time he got the urge to flirt with my girlfriend he would have to do it at my house. He got red, then i called him a creep. My girlfriend was already walking down the stairs on her way to the car. Needless to say we left. Don't know why I told you all that, but it may be relevant. We do not see her friend or her friend's dad anymore.

Answer 5

Okay,first of all if u'r underage,it is definetly not okay,u NEED to let somone know about it, cuz he's a perv and u never know what other sexual related acts he might try 2 do.SEcond if u feel as though u tell ya friend and they b acting like u provoke it,u need 2 catch the bastard in the act,get a small recorder and record the bastard,then tell ya friend,if she don't believe u make a copy of the tape and blackmail his azz,threaten him.and if she don't believe u and start trippin',she ain't ya friend,and should kick ya friend 2 the curb,u do not need the drama,u 2 smart 4 that.But definetly tell somone.and even if u're not underage it's still not right so protect yourself.

Answer 6

Yes you probably should avoid them, or at least the father. Nobody says you have to be friends with your friend's relatives... and if your friend insists upon it - then tell him what's up and that the father makes you feel unconfertable. Maybe you should speak up and tell the father that you don't want to and that you are unconfertable with him acting like that towards you.

Answer 7

I would tell your dad 1st if you have a good relastionship and if that not true i would tell him directly and i would never sit on someones lap unless that was my boyfriend or something

Answer 8

dang, don't fret about telling your friend, tell your parents, a teacher, or some other adult you trust! The dad sounds like a sexual predator and he needs to be stopped. If you avoid him and don't rat him out, he'll move on to some other kid.

Answer 9

AVOID the dad especially if it's a GOOD friend

Answer 10

Does your father condone (approve) of this??


ive been in your shoes, my fathers friend was our neighbor,and since my father didnt make friends easily--he only told me to stay away from neighbor.
most parents would have stormed over there to his house and **whatever** would have insued. so i am VERY concerned whether or not your Dad approves of this or not.

You know right from wrong--or you would not have posted this. Please call national boys/girls hotline to get help. Its annonymous

1-800-448-3000