i grew up with this girl, and stuck by her thru thick and thin, even when she was wrong, even when everyone else just used her and left her flat, i would go pick her up and be there for her. she betrayed me once, and i forgave her because that's how i am and i don't judge. this time this betrayal is not going to just fly by--- i thought i couldn't trust my hubby and that he would cheat on me one day but he didn't--- it's my friend that tried to get my hubby to cheat and not only did he not do it, he told me and all our friends and told me not to be friends with her anymore. i believe my hubby now because there was a witness to the events and they both didn't know the person, only i did so that person had no reason to lie to me. i believe in non-violence, but i put up with so much crap from her that all i want to do is slap the s*** out of her, right now that's how i feel. i really want to just take out an ad with her name and address and phone # and advertise her 4 the slut she is.
2006-08-12 14:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry to hear about something like this! I hope that initial feeling of you want to beat the s*** out of her is done. You have every right to feel that way but honestly it isn't going to solve anything. I say that you, your husband and this other person who said they saw the incident, confront her. Tell her that it hurts you and how else you may feel and that isn't what a best friend would ever do! It sounds like she has some issues of her own, maybe suggest that she get help. Make sure though that your husband and this other person, who you also believe, are there to confront her. Sit down and talk, no screaming, punching, or anything else, you are all adults. Now if she has a different story to tell, and you wrote earlier something about "I always thought that my husband would be the one to cheat on me" well, you may have another issue on your hands there.............I will pray for all! Good luck!
2006-08-12 14:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok so now you know that your hubby is 100% true to you and that he will never cheat on you.As for the girl that tried she has been burnt buy your husband and she will take some time to get over it.i can understand the way you feel right now but you have had the best revenge anyone could hope for a hubby that is honest and true and put her in her place.instead of feeling rage or hatred you should be feeling proud and strong and be on cloud nine as your hubby respects you more than anyother female.As for the girl I would stop having her around and just be sure that you stick to your words and tell her to get the hell away from you both and go and find a life for her self with someone else
2006-08-12 14:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you can trust your hubby what are you doing with him?
If I was you I wouldn't talk to that girl anymore, but I wouldn't do anything violent or malacious, because that could just get you in trouble and isn't worth it!
2006-08-12 14:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what just drop her and don't be friends with her anymore she is not worth your time. Getting revenge would be sweet but why waste your time on trash. She is obviously not your best friend or she wouldn't have done that to you. Find a new best friend that is worthy of your friendship. Good luck.
2006-08-12 14:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing and drop her like a hot potato. A true friend will not try to mess with your husband and that alone requires that you drop her.
Any other action would be malicious revenge and not do anyone any good.
2006-08-12 14:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure your husband didn't come on to her,get turned down and is reversing roles,sounds a little "Springer Like" over there,then yes I would kick that a ss!
2006-08-12 14:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even need any more details. If she came anywhere near coming onto my husband, I would've kicked her ***. Drop her as a friend and find some friends who know what their boundaries are.
2006-08-12 14:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her. Block her emails. Don't take her calls. Pretend she doesn't exist. Put all that energy you might spend on settling with her into showing your trustworthy husband your appreciation.
2006-08-12 15:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by silver.graph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and girls like them do really exist!!! how unfortunate of you to ever bump into one. i know because i also bumped into one, only different case.
don't waste your time on her. she's too worthless to even deserve your anger.
treat her as if she never existed at all.
2006-08-12 14:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Polygamy?
2006-08-12 14:40:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 'N' Shakes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋