My live in boyfriend has a cew female friends that he talks to, two of them is his ex girlfriend. The one that bothers me are his exes. I found one email to his ex stating that he still missed her and that he is lonely and he mentioned me as a room mate not his girl. I confronted him and he told me he was drunk when he sent those emails, of course I'm not dumb and didn't buy that bull. Also I get bad vibes about his other ex that he talks to, he went and saw her on 2 different occasions without telling me. He says he was just helping her with a web page and on the first occassion he said he just wanted to see her. He has been unfaithful to me once that I know of and he confessed to that and I believe him when he told me that he would never do it again. But now I'm dealing with him and these female friends. I just have a gut feeling that something isn't right. I don't know how to feel abou the situation. I asked him to get rid of the exes that he's talkin to, was I right to do that?
2006-08-12 14:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by Juicy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can spare yourself all kinds of future drama by breaking it off with this guy right now. He's already cheated once ( that you know of) and he's feeding you a load of crap with the drunken e-mail story. He's describing you as a roommate and you're financially vested in him to come up with rent, to boot. I wish I could be more positive with a prognosis for this relationship, but it stinks to high hell and I think you know it. I'm sorry, but it's the best thing for you. A little pain now, or a lot of pain later.
2006-08-12 14:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby I say let him keep the EX, You walk out and keep going this man does not mean you any good. If he cheated once & your gut is telling you something is up. Then baby you better believe it is.. Dont vest any more time & effort into this. You will regret it later if you do.. Your time to walk is now... Let him have all the ex's he want..
2006-08-12 14:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lady red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are right to feel this way and I bet my last aussie cent that your gut feeling is right also.
Put the foot down completely with this guy. It's you and only you or the highway for him......Ex-girlfriends in the picture can not make for a happy house.
All the best sweety
Dave
2006-08-12 14:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Dave D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give this thing about 3-6 months to work itself out and if he still is playing around, move on to some one you know you can trust. Some who does not have all those exes running around in his life still, especially, if they were married.
2006-08-12 14:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ariel 128 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay no ur not wrong at all! listen i would tell him to get rid of these girls as his friends because your more important... obviously they broke up for a reason. Why does he have to keep in touch with them for? Im sure he has plenty of friends... why would he hide it from you to? Id follow your gut feeling and if he continues to talk to them id get rid of him ... chances are he'll be back.
2006-08-12 15:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by nygirlsrdifferent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u were bt trust me he did it once hes gonna do it again fine he can rid of these female "so called friends" bt wat happens wen yall married and cheats on u again and u already have kids from him wat are u gonna do if i was u ill leave his a** right away dont b wid sum1 whos not gonna give u they all theres many guys out there find sum1 wholl treat u like they queen and who wont even think abt cheating on u dont make the same mistake i did coz from exp. im telling u ur right for telling him get rid of them bt sonner or later hes gonna get new female friends ur wrong for sticking wid him u can never change a guy ....
hope u do the right thing...
2006-08-12 14:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were right to tell him to get rid of the exes! Listen to your gut! It will not lead you wrong! Something definitely isn't right!
2006-08-12 14:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not right to tell him to get rid of his female friends cause u also have male friends right??
but about his exes...thats not right...i think he's trying to get back with his ex...its very clear...saw each other without telling you and mentioned u as his roomate...
He told u he will never do it again?? (my god my ex also told me that and i fell for it but after a while he did it again). if you notice suspicious behavior again...leave him!
2006-08-12 14:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by misty_eyed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy, and i'd say follow ur gut instinct on this. eveything u feel there is dead on. and i'm sure if u asked him to get rid of them, he'll just go see them behind ur back, wait and see.
2006-08-12 14:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by jay_taztt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't or rather don't trust the guy, pack up and get out. Tell him why you're going and go. Don't look back, don't turn around, never return.
2006-08-12 14:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋