Hello, Im 19yrs old and I just recently came into a problem with my sex life its embrassing so Im going to ask here before I decide to go to the doctor. I been having sex with my girlfriend for alittle over a year now and just all of a sudden my penis does not want to get hard or stays in a mushy like form . It just does not have a erection all the way. It will get hard random at random times but only stays for about 1-5mins. When it is hard and when the sperm comes out it goes back into a mushy form. I appreciate all help just want to know some ideas that yall recommend before seeking a doctor.
2006-08-12 14:18:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
No Im not taking any medicines.
2006-08-12 14:25:00 · update #1
Its your self fear and confusion. Better get a couseler for this. You think its not working, thats the reason its not working.
Take good rest, sleep, healthy food for a weeks time, throwing away your tensions, you will be alright.
2006-08-12 14:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get an erection while masturbating, then I would say your problem with your girlfriend is probably psychological (in other words: you are bored, or you feel some sort of tension when you are with her sexually). On the other hand if you can't get an erection even when you are alone and in private, then I would talk to your primary doctor and he will refer you to a urologist. You're too young to be having problems getting an erection so if it is just not working at all, don't be scared, be aware and go see a doctor.
2006-08-12 15:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by PhillyBob1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably bored. Try doing something different, exciting. Do you get full erections when/if you watch porn? If yes, then you and your girlfriend need to try something to spice up your sex life. If you still have a problem after those, I'd consult a doctor. It could be something as little as a type of medication you are on. Good luck!
2006-08-12 14:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a porn flick and see if this helps. If not go see a urologist doctor. Sometimes erectile dysfunction's occur in young men just as well as older men. Don't be embarrassed about it. Also if you have a very good open relationship with your father, discuss it with him. Perhaps it is something that runs in your family.
I have also experianced a few occasions that I could not acheive a woody - as in I could not even get raise it up by a crane.
Good Luck :)
2006-08-12 15:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by bblond1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 09:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probobly tired of the way you 2 perform try toys lubes different positions in different spots and maybe youll get a good ol hardon again
2006-08-12 14:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by William 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend seeing a doctor.
2006-08-12 15:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but i reported the dude who posted the first answer here. He is annoying & advertising isnt allowed on here.
2006-08-12 14:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get more sleep and drink lots of water or viagra
2006-08-12 14:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats definetely something you need to see the doctor for
2006-08-12 14:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Well i Say.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋