I need some advice, I saw this girl yesterday, we know each other since ninth grade, but we haven't seen each other for 3 years, I really liked her then and I still do, and I think she likes me too. Anyway we are supposed to meet tomorow to go on a walk on the town and talk. But I'm soo nervous, I really don't want to screw this up. Could you please give me some advice, like what to do, what not to do, what to talk about, pls. I'd really appreciate any kind of help.
2006-08-12 14:11:03 · 9 answers · asked by Faust 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Julian,
While many will advise you to "be yourself," there's more to it than this. Be unselfish by caring about what she says and what she likes to do. As you're walking around, be a good listener especially. Girls of any age want to feel you treasure them sincerely, so spend your time and energy, not trying to be perfect, but trying to be caring and unselfish.
2006-08-12 14:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are to nervous this will make her feel uncomfortable as-well, First relax , whats the worst that could happen? Dress neatly be yourself ,.> and if you haven't talked in three years try and talk about things that happened since the last time u seen her, girls like to keep up to date on current affairs, I'm sure along your walk there will be stores that have changed ,chit-chat, about everything not just one topic u will find that once u both say hi again your tongues will be rolling HAVE A GREAT NIGHT.
2006-08-12 23:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, be a good listener, be polite, friendly, not pushy, clean, smell nice, be attentive, be a gentleman, look her in the eye often, don't play with your clothes, your hair, your keys,etc, It sounds like you can be a good conversationalist so I think you have it made!
2006-08-12 22:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you MUST do is calm down. After you've accomplished that the rest will fall into place. Have fun.
2006-08-12 23:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to begin , when she talks just agree with her, when u get tired of hearing her , take the duct tape out, give her a chance to shut up, if she doesnt and she probably wont use the whole roll.
2006-08-12 21:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep the converstion neutral, don't talk about anything upsetting.
act natural the way u would with your best friedn.
go get 'em tiger
2006-08-12 21:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only need to do one thing. BE YOURSELF. The rest has already started.
2006-08-12 21:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done well enough on your own. keep on the track you are on and you will do well.
2006-08-12 21:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self,she may be feeling the same
2006-08-13 11:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋