My friend just told me she was a Bi sexual.....and that she likes me and she asked me out and i said no..?

Question

becuz i'm not a lesbian or bi sexual.....I feel really uncomfortable around her now and I dont know what to do. Can someone help me? Please!

Answer 1

It is perfectly normal for you to be freaked out. Your friend has laid a lot on you at once. You should also know, however, that it was probably really really hard for her to tell you this. You should tell her how uncomfortable you are with the situation and that you would still like to be her friend (if that's true). It's OK to tell her that you don't understand why she did what she did, but not in a judgmental way. If you don't want to lose her as a friend, just talk to her about it. If she freaks out about this, fine. Let her. It would be her responsibility to come back to you in her own time if she is really a friend.

Answer 2

I guess it's normal to feel some level of discomfort, but she's not likely to try to force you into being something you're not. Follow your heart, and if you can deal with the initial awkwardness and put it aside, resume your friendship. If not, go your separate ways. It really is as simple as that. Good luck.

Answer 3

Just like you have done, your friend is finding her direction in life. Just remain friends, talk with her and tell her how it makes you feel uncomfortable but that you still want to be friends.

Answer 4

Your friend wants to make out with you...
So, you're going to have to cool her jets by breaking your friendship with her for a while. This would be good for her too because when she's with you it makes her want you.

If she doesn't stop then I think you will need to talk to some other people to help you out - talk to your mother, or to a teacher.

Answer 5

I think you need to just let her know you don't want to hang out anymore it would be to weird and I am sure she will probably try to hit on you again so just end your friendship!

Answer 6

have sex with her and then u will feel more comfortable