I am 14, and a female. I have been sort of fantisizing about women older than me in a sexual way......?

Question

is this normal? or... yea, im scared.

Answer 1

well whats to say is normal right? u could be realizing there is a chnace you might be gay ..but alot of people go through experiences and stages to figure out thier sexuality which is probably what ur doing so either way id just stay true to urself and try to figure out if ur attraction to guys is the same as the attraction u have to ur fantasies about women

Answer 2

It is very normal. These are innocent crushes. They are probably the type of women you would like to be like or be friends with. This will go away as you grow older (I know you probably get sick of hearing that). Don't be scared, it is normal. You will be fine.

Answer 3

Part of adolescence is experimentation. I didn't realize I was bisexual until I was 22. I always thought that women were just plain hot. I never understood it until one day a light bulb came on. There is nothing wrong with this at all. You are ok.

Answer 4

im 14 and ive never done tht.but i have a bf so i dont have to "fantisize" anything.good luck!

Answer 5

I'm 15, and I do, too. Some people tell me it 's a phase, others tell me I'm bi. I'm still a little confused, but I think I'll figure it out eventually, and you will, too. Good luck.

Answer 6

Yes, this is normal. You don't have to be scared just don't act on your fantasies.Your too young for that.

Answer 7

first of all, shave your head and go ahead and accept the fact that you are going to be a butch dike for life. there is nothing wrong with this although you might get beat up, made fun of, and called names forever. GAY PRIDE!!

Answer 8

absolutely normal, don't ever feel badly about your own thoughts or sexual desires you have.

many ppl often think in their teenage years that they are only ones who have these thoughts.

Answer 9

Probably bi