Everything in my life sucks! My lack of a good job, my relationships (lack of) EVERYTHING!
2006-08-12 13:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by mikemac 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The advice I'm going to give is simple, boring, and you've probably heard it a million times. Be yourself! If you're not yourself, you can't be happy. If you can't find a good job. . . create one! Do what you love. To build good relationships get involved with something. Chances are, you'll find someone with similar interests. I know you've probably heard this advice before, but it's true. You have to take control of your life. Good luck!
2006-08-12 13:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing an honest assessment of yourself. What are your good qualities/bad qualities. Work on bringing out the good and changing what you don't like. As far as a job goes, would you be able to go back to school or get more training?? If you can, you might look into that. Think about something that you really enjoy doing and look into that. Relationships, it's hard to say. You might try hanging out with people you work with and go from there.
Good luck.
2006-08-12 13:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TAKEN THE FIRST STEP - you are trying to improve what you want to change -and just because you are not happy with your life does not mean it sucks - it probably would make a lot of people happy to have your life - it's all in perspective - yours!@
2006-08-12 13:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a concrete goal to work toward. What would you like your life to look like? Then you can make a plan to start working toward that.
The book "Wishcraft" by Barbara Sher is a wonderful tool for this kind of thing. She helps you figure out what you want, then takes you step-by-step how to get it.
2006-08-12 13:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by lee m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step to self improvement is by being brutally honest with yourself.
2006-08-12 13:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that attitude would come first, then a better job, and once you are all settled you can work on the relationship.
2006-08-12 13:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did it. admitting that you need improvement is the first step toward improvement. Next is do nice thing for peop;e without them knowing it, thereby building good karma.
2006-08-12 13:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by joerocket51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an education then a better job. If you have to work your way through college you won't have time to screw up.
2006-08-12 13:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Catspaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered committing your life to Jesus Christ?
He has the power to turn your life around.
Cordially,
John
2006-08-12 13:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit whining
2006-08-12 13:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋