2006-08-12 13:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by KARM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not know. I'm in IL. going thru the same thing.
2006-08-12 13:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since california is a "no fault" state (re a divorce) you will be dicorced within 6 monts. You also will not get anything, since you would be divorced by default. If you have children and or material posessions that are close to you, I would strongly recommend to get an attorney. Also make sure that there are no Life-or Retirement insurances, that has been paid with community funds, because you are entiteled to half. Good luck to you, I am going through the same thing right now in California.
2006-08-12 14:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is that my husband went through two years getting his divorce finalized before we could get married because his ex-wife took forever to sign the papers. She was the one who rushed him to the alter because she was afraid she was going to lose him when he joined the marines. Then she decided to join 6 months later and then there was just too many men to give up the opportunity to be single again. She wanted the divorce six month into the marriage, and she wanted him to pay for the paperwork. Here we are married for 13 years and she still continues to pop-up in our life wanting to know how we are doing.
2006-08-12 14:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Carmen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After so many refusals the attorney can get a Judge to rule in the favor of whom is seeking the divorce.
2006-08-16 03:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean by divorce papers. Do you mean a final decree? Or do you mean a declaration, response or MSA? In any case, CA is a no fault state, so the petitioner can still obtain a divorce. The details of which (property, custody etc) will be decided by the court.
2006-08-12 13:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as anywhere else: you refuse to sign, first of all you get nothing, and second of all after 6 months you'll be declared divorced anyway....so check with your local family court and/or get an attorney....good luck
2006-08-12 13:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the divorce will still go through after a certain amount of time.
Of course you could call a para legal or an attorney, they would be able to tell you more. Even the clerk at the courthouse maybe able to tell ya.
2006-08-12 13:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually, in ANY state, after a certain amount of time, the Judge will sign the papers and give the divorce anyway...
2006-08-12 13:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat relies upon, How long have you ever been married,How long have you ever been unhappy, and has any of this ever been documented. From what i know having written documented time and date approximately what's your on a daily basis existence incorporate with this companion is efficient. i'm not sure how long you been married yet once you have or not save a diary,yet, commence back then type of write approximately the way it replaced into then and as approximately whilst it began months and date are a plus, then you definately ought to additionally checklist with regard to the day you filed had them served and what there reaction to you why . additionally attempt to bear in mind and checklist interior the bypass of what share time you tried to hold this to concerns with that guy or woman and he or she or he reaction to it . in case you may in certainty tough draft your bypass history with month-to-month or each and every year and yet save a on a daily basis interior the instantaneous recent of your relationship by using fact you filed whilst he replaced into served if so and what are motives for not signing. There are different procedures and ability to acquire help have you ever tried kinfolk regulation on the courtroom residing house you crammed .good luck . the only way that any one might assist you you extra is thru having extra concepts approximately what pertains on your specific case. There are allot of variables and in spite of what your academic back floor is with the perfect direction and coaching you're able to do allot of the paper artwork and document your self in case you cant handle to pay for an lawyer.
2016-10-02 00:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not stop the proceedings. It takes a bit longer to finalize. If you are refusing. just let go and move on. Get into a support group to cope, but remember this is not the end.
2006-08-12 13:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may go to the judge and then he or she has the right to grant the divorce.. Check with your attorney
2006-08-12 13:34:30 · answer #11 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋