I need some time to be on my own. We've been together several years, and lately, I have developed a small crush on her younger sister. I know I wouldn't want to date her sister b/c she is not my type, but I am really lusting after her. I think it may just be b/c she is supposed to be "forbidden." After I break up with my girlfriend, would it be very wrong to try to go after her sister? I think I may just have a desire to be intimate with this girl, but I'm not sure. I'm not a bad guy, just caught in an odd situation I never expected, please help if you can. Thanks.
2006-08-12 12:29:53 · 21 answers · asked by Big Timer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it is wrong to go after her sister once you break up with her, especially when you are "completely in love" with her.
2006-08-12 12:32:52 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that would be totally wrong!!! Put yourself in your gf's shoes. How would you feel if she started dating your younger brother or your best friend after breaking up with you? Would you applaud her or would you hate her for doing that to you? If you say that you're not a bad guy then don't hurt your gf's feelings like that. If you need some time on your own, that's ok. But just forget about her sister too.
2006-08-12 19:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by loving_girl_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go after her sister. PLEASE. However.......you are correct with your self evaluation. The sister is enticing because she is "forbidden". You need to get a break and experience other people otherwise you will resent your girlfriend for being "in your way." The mature thing is to do as you said and talk to her. Don't start creeping. Talk about it and do what is best. Tell her you need this space because you don't want to end up hurting her. And though you may hurt her by telling her you need space, the DIFFERENCE is that at least you are being HONEST.
2006-08-12 19:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be very wrong to go after her little sister. How can you say you are completely in love with your girlfriend and even consider going after her sister? Just seems that those two statements don't belong together. Are you IN love with her or do you maybe just love her? There's a difference.
2006-08-12 19:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Suzelle A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant go after the sister. Your girlfriend would completely crack!!! Please consider her feelings. I can understand wanting to try new things when things get routine and frustrating. Imagine your life without her. Seriously. If that thought brings you to tears, then i would say you really dont want to break up with her. But if it doesnt, then maybe you and your girlfriend need to have that talk. Just dont go after sister
2006-08-12 19:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by slipknot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's your first real one? That doesn't justify breaking up with her. But your interest in her sister, does- in more ways than one. Just how old is the younger sister?
2006-08-12 19:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only you are going to break your girlfriend's heart, you want to break it even more by going after her sister. I mean I feel sorry for her really. How can you say you are in love with her when you don't even consider her feelings? You do not deserve her!
2006-08-12 19:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Seems to me maturity and you are not on the same page. Basically leave her sister alone and get a grip. The word sorry is not gonna help you if you screw up.
2006-08-12 19:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by roydono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you break up with her im sure its for a reason but if you think you will be happier with her sister go for it but dont hurt your girlfriends feelings it will really hurt her ok make the right decision bye hope i helped you david.
2006-08-12 19:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're in love with your girlfriend and then you want to break up with her for her sister who you don't love. Freak
2006-08-12 19:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋