I am a married woman(happily married). I have known this guy in passing for about 6 yrs now. For the past 1 1/2 yrs we have been conversing via email, text, instant messenger, and phone. He was married up till 9 months ago. and has been dating someone since. I moved out of state a year ago. Since we moved we have met up twice. We have only kissed each other a couple times. We are hoping to meet up again in a week(no idea if anything more than a kiss will go on) The other day he called me "Mistress". Am I his mistress??
2006-08-12 11:41:39 · 27 answers · asked by ......... . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
...does he think you have a riding crop and know how to use it? Sounds like he might like to serve someone in authority.
2006-08-16 09:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Rainy Day 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you are happily married but it doesn't sound like it to me. Happily married people do not go around kissing other people! Yes, you are his mistress. Just because you haven't had sex with this person yet, it's clear that that is where things are heading. You yourself said you have no idea if anything more will go on, which is the same as saying you are OK with it if it does. So I am sorry to burst your bubble, but you may be happy, but happily married you are not. If you care about your husband at all, you should stop all contact with this other man now and get start paying attention to your own husband!
2006-08-12 18:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't a mistress your a cheating whore who obviously must not be happily married if your considering meeting this guy again. Think of the poor bastard at home that obviously loves you too much and is blind to your adultering heart. The bible says if you think it you are just as guilty of actually doing it. I only hope you were atleast not foolish enough to have kids with your husband because a divorce is harder on children deal with. So when your marriage goes South get them counseling and hope they don't find out that you are less than faithful because they could end up hating you. This other guy doesnt care about you becuase if he did he would respect you by respecting your marriage. Don't expect this other guy to be faithful to you a cheater is a cheater and always will be.
2006-08-12 18:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but you are playing a foolish game which is about to change that happily married thing. What do you think is going to happen when your husband catches on? Are you hoping to slam pain on him? That is the ultimate result of what you are about to do.
By the way, a mistress is normally an unmarried woman who has an affair with a married guy.
2006-08-12 18:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because your still married. If you were single and he was married and he put you up somewhere to help you pay the bills and take care of you specifically to have relations with you (his hope would be exclusively), then you would be a true "mistress".
As of now, your just a two-timing piece of garbage, and I hope your husband finds out so he can kick your a-$-$ to the curb, then you can be well on your way to what you seem really excited about... being a "mistress".
2006-08-12 18:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by John Stamos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but why are you kissing this guy if you are "happily married?" If something more DOES happen, you will be his mistress though. Is this what you want? If he's dating someone, why is he kissing you? I would stay away from this guy. He will ruin your marriage if your husband finds out (your"happy marriage") and this guy obviously has many girlfriends...do you want to be with someone like that? You have to think about what you're doing!
2006-08-12 19:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not his mistress. But you are acting like a cheap floozy. If you are so happily married, why do you keep this up? He is dating someone, why does he keep this up? Don't you see that nothing good can come of this?
2006-08-12 18:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
You said he was married, which dosen't apply to now, and that dosen't necessarily make you his mistress, except you do some fantasy dreams which mistresses do.
I honestly do not think so, but then again, i am only going by what you wrote down.
Take care.
2006-08-12 18:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by kida_w 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happily married why are you kissing another guy. You are not his mistress but YOU WILL BE! when you meet with him again.
2006-08-12 18:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by sandiiiiii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. he is not married and you don't see each other on a regular occurance. The only other way you could be his mistress is if you wore leather and had a whip. He just might enjoy it, ask him.
2006-08-13 03:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "happily married" then tell this other guy to buzz off or you just might end up being his mistress.
2006-08-12 19:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋